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DIECAST

DIECAST


1 THESSALONIANS 1:7

“so that you became an example to all the believers in Macedonia and in Achaia.”

When I was a boy I collected and played with Matchbox cars.  I loved those things. I literally played for hours with my cars, trucks and construction vehicles. I was careful when I bought them to not buy a duplicate. But there were thousands produced of each one I bought. They were diecast from molds based on an original prototype.  

The word here for “example” is typos, which means example, model or diecast. Get the picture. Paul is telling the Thessalonians that they are the diecast model of the prototype from which they have been cast. They are replicas of Jesus.  Wow! That still applies today.

APPLICATION

The next time you buy your child a toy that is a replica of something, explain this verse to them. Explain how, as followers of Christ, we are to be the example for others to follow. Sometimes the only Jesus they will see is us. So, we need to make sure all they see is Jesus in us.

How can your child do that? By talking like Jesus. By acting like Jesus. By loving like Jesus. Simply by being the best look alike of Jesus they can be. Our prayer should be that all anyone sees when they see us is Jesus. When they see us, they should want to be closer to Him.

Take a look in the mirror today. The person you see in the reflection is going to be your biggest obstacle of looking like Jesus. Our flesh gets in the way. Our desires get in the way. Our wrong motives get in the way. Put that all aside and simply be Jesus today.

Lord God, stamp Your image on me today so that other only see You. I want others to be drawn to You through me. Let nothing of me get in the way of them discovering You.

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IMITATION


1 Thessalonians 1:6 “You also became imitators of us and of the Lord, having received the word in much tribulation with the joy of the Holy Spirit,” 

I can still remember when my son was little (around 2 or 3).  He would follow me around outside and literally try to do everything I did. If I was working on the car he would get his little step stool and climb up next to me.  If I was in the garden, he would have his little bucket and help me pick the vegetables.  He would imitate me in just about every way.  

The most flattering, however, was watching him imitate my preaching.  Even before he could talk well, he would come home after I had preached at the Children’s Home Chapel and grab his little step stool, get up on it with his little Gideon New Testament, raise it up in his tiny, little hand and say, “Ooo Ah, Ooo, Ah, Ooo Ah!”  I never knew I sounded like that.  Lol

APPLICATION

We don’t necessarily want our children to imitate everything we do, however.  Am I right?  We mess up sometimes.  But because they are watching, we need to make sure when we do mess up, we make it right quick.  Our ultimate goal is to teach them to imitate, not us, but Christ in us.  Paul said that in this verse.  He said “imitators of us and of the Lord.”  Paul knew that he was not worthy of imitation, but the Lord certainly was.

So, what of the Lord in you do you want your children to imitate?  “Oh Carl, I can’t think of anything.”  Well, that’s a problem.  Your children are going to imitate or model their life on someone.  You need to do all you can to point them to the only prototype worthy of imitation – Jesus Christ.  If they can’t see Him in you, you must correct that.

Do you love others selflessly?  Do you put others before yourself?  Do you give to others without expectation of repayment?  Do you…you fill in the blank.  As long as we have children in our home, we are to be mindful of the lessons we are teaching.  We teach because we want them to learn.  So, teach Christ.  Teach them to model their lives in His image.

Father of all, reshape me into the very image of Christ so others will only see Him in me.  Let the first thing they see in me be Christ.  Let the last thing they see in me be Christ.  

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HOW DO YOU PREACH?


VERSE OF THE DAY: 1 Thessalonians 1:5

“for our gospel did not come to you in word only, but also in power and in the Holy Spirit and with full conviction; just as you know what kind of men we proved to be among you for your sake”

Notice these words spoken by Paul. Sharing the gospel isn’t just about what you share. It has to do a lot with how you share it. Paul shared it “in power and in the Holy Spirit and with full conviction.” You see, by doing this he proved who he was in Christ.

Sharing the gospel with power is important. This doesn’t mean yelling and screaming. It means with confidence, with determination. You can’t share the most powerful story ever told with meekness. And that power comes only through the Holy Spirit. Your power won’t cut it. You have to believe in its truth.

APPLICATION

How do you teach your children to share the gospel? By letting them see you do it, that’s how. You may say, “But Carl, I’m no preacher.” Didn’t say you were. But we must all tell the story. If you believe it’s true you have to. It’s our obligation to share. And your kids will watch you and learn.

Help your kids start small. Help them talk to their friends about Jesus. Teach them to tell the stories to their believing friends. They will receive it. Then they will have the confidence to share it with their lost friends. Oh, the joy of seeing others come to Christ.

With whom have you shared lately? Who are you “preaching” to? Tell it with power. Tell it in the Spirit. Tell it with conviction. Then leave the results to our Father who does the drawing.  

Lord, today allow me to share this great story with someone who needs to hear it. Lead me to those lost souls who need the gospel. I will celebrate with the angels at the result.

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GOD CHOSE YOU


VERSE OF THE DAY: 1 Thessalonians 1:4

“knowing, brethren beloved by God, His choice of you;”

Now, before you stop reading – I am not going to get into a discussion about predestination or “the elect.” No, I am just going take this verse as it is written. God wills that all men be save. Once we are His, we are His beloved. He chose that. He chose us. He desires us all. Isn’t that the best thing you have ever heard?

Paul knew that the Lord had chosen to extend His salvation to the Gentiles, which included these Thessalonians. He wanted to reassure them here at the beginning of this letter that they were His. Are you? Are you beloved by God? Are you one of His chosen? I pray you are. I pray you are.

APPLICATION

Here is the bad news. Your faith is NOT your child’s faith. Your choice to follow Jesus does NOT guarantee they will. However, you must do everything you can to lead them toward Him. He will do the drawing. He will speak to them. Teach them to listen. Talk to them about how you hear Him.

There is no greater joy for a parent than to hear these words from their child, “I asked Jesus into my heart.” That can happen at any age. Be ready for it. Don’t doubt their decision. Just do all you can to help them grow. Do all you can to help them know they are beloved by God and His choice.

Who can you encourage today with these words? You may have a friend who needs to hear these words today. Be the one to tell them. And then invite others to join you in His family. Don’t you want everyone you know to be called beloved?

O Lord, I know I am beloved. I know I am chosen by You. I am blessed to be a part of Your great family.

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NEVER STOP


VERSE OF THE DAY: 1 Thessalonians 1:3

“constantly bearing in mind your work of faith and labor of love and steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ in the presence of our God and Father,”

This is a loaded verse. Look at all Paul says to the Thessalonians here. When he says “constantly,” he means without ceasing. In fact, he uses this same word two other times in this letter. My favorite is in chapter 5, verse 17 when he says, “pray without ceasing.” The same word!

But then Paul tells them what he has not stopped doing. He is remembering all they have done. He lists them: work of faith, labor of love and steadfastness of hope. And all of this is “in our Lord Jesus Christ” in God’s presence. There is no use doing those things if that’s not the case.

APPLICATION

How do you apply this verse to your own life or the life of your children? It’s the word “constantly.” We must never stop. We must never stop praying. We must never stop seeking God for the lost. We must never stop remembering all He has done for us through others. We simply must never stop.

“Come on, Carl. I can’t physically or spiritually do that.” Of course, you can’t. But Christ can through you. Just let Him have complete control, and He will do the rest. Just as Paul was remembering their faith, love and hope, you can do the same. And let them know you have done that.

Let me ask you this question. Can others say that about you? Can they constantly remember your works of faith, labors of love and steadfastness of hope? If not, ask yourself what it will take to be noticed in this way. It’s not about others seeing you. It’s about standing out for Jesus.

O Heavenly Father, I praise You for saving me. Give me the strength to be bold and courageous as I face my biggest challenges.

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ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR OTHERS?


VERSE OF THE DAY: 1 Thessalonians 1:2

“We give thanks to God always for all of you, making mention of you in our prayers;”

I love how Paul tells ALL the Thessalonians these words. He was thanking God for all of them. Now, that’s hard for me to believe. Surely, there was at least one person in that church that Paul wasn’t entirely thankful for. I’ve been in a lot of churches, and I can’t think of a one where I was thankful for everyone. There always seems to be one who just causes me trouble.

Then Paul goes on to say he is praying for them. He, Silvanus and Timothy were praying for them. What do you think he was praying? I am sure he was reflecting on all they had done for him and the Lord. Who do you mention in your prayers?

APPLICATION

Teaching our children to pray is one of the most enjoyable parts of being a parent. Hearing them pray for Aunt Susie, Uncle Fred, the mailman and the dog down the street really warms your heart. Making mention of people!  That’s what they are doing.  They are doing the same thing Paul was doing.

Our job is teach them to talk to the Lord about others. They should pray for healing for the sick. They should pray for the salvation of the lost. And they should pray for wisdom for fellow believers to walk with the Lord. Whatever it is, they should pray for others and be thankful for them.

Who are you the most thankful for? Who are you praying for? Be like Paul today and give thanks for all, not just a few. Remember, God has placed each person in your life for a reason. Be thankful!

O God, I confess I am not thankful for everyone in my life. Give me Your love for them. Help me see them as You. Then I can be grateful for them and pray for them.

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WELL WISHES

VERSE OF THE DAY: 1 Thessalonians 1:1

“Paul and Silvanus and Timothy, to the church of the Thessalonians in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ: Grace to you and peace.” 

We don’t write letters much anymore. We text, tweet, post to social media, but we don’t sit down and write a letter. Why is that? What are we missing?

Paul is writing this letter to the church in Thessaloniki. I’ve been to Thessaloniki. What a beautiful city. The ancient city wall is still partially standing. You can stand on the hill which overlooks the harbor and watch the ships come and go. I could almost imagine Paul standing in that spot almost 2,000 years ago.

How does Paul address these believers?  With grace and peace. Wouldn’t that be a wonderful way to address other believers today? Just think how refreshing that would be if we did that. 

APPLICATION

Do that today and see the responses you get. Say to the first person you meet today, “Grace and peace to you.” I bet you will get some raised eyebrows or maybe a puzzled look. They may ask you what you mean by that.

Now, that opens a door to share the Gospel. After all, isn’t sharing the Gospel essentially sharing about the grace and peace of God? Understanding grace brings peace. I want to encourage you to try it. Make someone’s day. It will make yours too.

God of grace and peace, help me today to be the bearer of grace. Help me speak peace.  Let me, like Paul, wish well to other believers who are traveling the same road I am.

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READY TO FORGIVE


Best Verse: Psalm 86:5 “For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive, and abundant in lovingkindness to all who call upon You.”

ANYONE

Man, O man.  This verse hit me hard.  I know God is always ready to forgive.  His will is that all men be saved, right?  What hit me hard was this question.  “Am I always ready to forgive?”  The answer is…No!  And that hurts.  Why am I not eager to forgive others?  What part of me won’t allow that?

It’s my old, sinful self.  It’s my flesh.  It’s my ego. It’s my hurt feelings. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.  I don’t forgive because it’s all about me.  Wow! That is NOT godly, and for that I repent.  I need to be more like Him and forgive freely and willingly.

TEACHING MOMENT

Listen closely, mom and dad, grandma and grandpa.  Teach your children and grandchildren to forgive.  Teach them how to forgive.  Teach them why you forgive.  We forgive because He first forgave us.  We must exercise the same kind of mercy He shows us. 

But there is ONLY one way for your children to learn this.  You have to do it first.  Instead of talking about others, forgive them.  When someone hurts you, forgive them.  Let your children know, as much as is appropriate, that you have chosen to forgive that person because of Jesus.  You may want to retaliate or hold that grudge, but because of His love for you and them, you have chosen to forgive.

Who do you need to forgive right now?  I bet there is someone.  I bet there is someone in your life right now whom you are upset with.  Let it go.  Let the Lord Jesus love them through you.  Show them the mercy and grace you have experienced in Jesus.

Father of forgiveness, there is NO WAY I can forgive others.  But I know You can forgive them through me.  Help me today to die to myself and allow You to live and love through me.

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JUST ONE DAY


Best Verse: Psalm 84:10a “For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand outside.”

BETTER THAN A THOUSAND ELSEWHERE

Don’t you just love this verse?  Can you imagine standing in the court of God?  Many people fear that.  Not me. Why?  Because I am welcomed.  I am an heir to His kingdom.  He extends His scepter towards me in gesture of acceptance.  I had rather spend seconds with Him than eons without Him.

Being in God’s court means You can see Him rule and reign.  Being in God’s court means You can observe His mercy and grace.  Being in God’s court means You can see the multitudes who are bowing before Him.  Nothing will compare with being in His court.

TEACHING MOMENT

Take your child to court.  Now, I don’t mean to get him straightened out.  Let them observe a court room.  Most kids have never seen that, so this verse doesn’t make sense to them.  If possible, let them meet a judge.  Explain to them what the judge does.  He dispenses justice.  That’s his job. 

Let them walk up to the judge’s bench.  Sitting up there you can see the whole courtroom.  Nothing is hidden from your view.  That’s how it is with God.  He rules from above and can see all eternity.  His rule is just and fair.  He rules equally.  

Where are you in the courtroom?  Are you trembling before our holy judge?  I hope not. I pray you are there just in awe of His presence.  I pray you walk in without trepidation or fear, knowing that Jesus is your defense. The accuser may come, but his arguments against you fall short.  If that isn’t you, make it so today.

Judge of all, I stand before You innocent because of Jesus.  My case has been dismissed.  I praise You for the mercy and grace You extended me.

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SPEAK UP GOD


Best Verse: Psalm 83:1 “O God, do not remain quiet; do not be silent and, O God, do not be still.”

AND DO SOMETHING

How many times have you begged God to speak to you?  Come on, be honest.  I am sure you have had those times in your life when God was quiet, when He was silent. I’ve had those times.  It was like He had turned off His ears and stopped listening to me.  

He hasn’t.  God is at work even when we think He isn’t.  He is always listening.  He is always at work.  We just don’t have our ears tuned to hear Him or our eyes focused to see Him at work. We are so busy screaming at God that we miss Him by a mile.

TEACHING MOMENT

We are all pretty good at teaching our children to pray.  We make the time to get with them at bedtime and pray with them or for them.  But do you teach them to listen?  Listening is a skill that will enable them to hear when God is speaking.  It will also allow them to determine when He is quiet.  If God is quiet, it is for a reason.

I am sure your children understand quietness. They may not be very quiet, but they have probably experienced it.  The next time you are praying with them, take a few minutes and be quiet.  Tell them to not say a word.  Tell them to just listen to all the things around them.  Getting still will allow them to hear – sometimes the unexpected.

When is the last time you were quiet? Sometimes I just sit and listen for God. I bow my head, turn my palms upward and focus on listening.  I want to hear Him when He speaks.  I have to turn off “me” to hear Him.  How about you?

Speak Lord, speak. Let me hear Your voice.  Let me hear Your commands.  I want to follow only You.

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