ROMANS 12:15
“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.”
I have been weeping the past couple of weeks with a dear brother who lost his older brother and was unable to attend the funeral in another country due to the violence around his home village. We cried and prayed together a lot. He and I have also had times of rejoicing over a new discipleship group getting launched in a church or over a new believer in Christ. He knows I will rejoice and weep with him.
Why do you think Paul puts these two directives together? Do people really have to be reminded to be appropriate with their emotions toward others? I guess so. Nothing has changed since Paul’s writing these words to the Romans. People can still be very inappropriate in their expression of emotions toward others. Rejoice when it’s time and weep when it’s time.
APPLICATION
Paul uses the same word for “rejoice” as he did back in verse 12 when we are told to rejoice in hope. I don’t need to go over that word again, do I? Go back in this blog site and read that again, if necessary. Let me point out the little preposition there. It’s the Greek word meta which really points to the after effect of the activity. That’s important to what Paul is saying. The rejoicing is done with the after effect in mind.
The same preposition is used when Paul writes “weep with those who weep.” It’s more about the after effect of the weeping you do with someone. The friend I mentioned earlier has become a dearer brother because of my weeping with him. This weeping really means to wail aloud, to really cry out loud. It’s not the quiet crying. Do not be afraid to let your cries be heard.
Rejoice or weep – which do you prefer? I think we would all prefer rejoicing, right? But there is a time and place for both. I am reminded of Ecclesiastes 3:4 where it says, “A time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance.” Whatever you are called on to do, do it with a pure motive for the benefit of the one you are joining.
Thank You, God, for friends who will rejoice and weep with me when I need them.
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