ROMANS 12:16
âBe of the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation.â
Learning how to get along with others is a skill we try to develop in our children. We teach them to share their toys and to play well with other children. We teach them to not fight and argue. And more importantly, we try to teach them that we need to treat others how we want to be treated ourselves. As my wife and I care for our two youngest grandchildren, we are teaching them to love each other and be kind to each other. Too many adults out there were never taught this by their parents.
Paul stresses these skills in todayâs verse. He mentions four things in verse 16 that are essential for us as followers of Christ in order to preserve the unity in the body of Christ. I wonder if he was addressing certain individuals in these statements. He doesnât mention any names, but he may have been told of certain conflicts among the Roman believers. But these traits he is teaching also apply to how to treat anyone, believers or not.
APPLICATION
Being âof the same mind toward one anotherâ is an interesting statement. The Greek literally reads, âthe same thing toward one another minding.â HELPS Word-studies says the Greek word phronĂŠĹ translated as âmindingâ has to do with a mindset that is shown in outward behavior. In other words, how we think about others will be shown in how we act towards them. Paul urges us to have the same mindset, to get along. Thatâs a toddler skill, remember.
This skill is reflected in the following three things Paul talks about. He says for us to ânot be haughty in mind.â That means to not be conceited or too high minded toward others. As Christians we are not to put ourselves above others. We need to have the same attitude as Christ (see Philippians 2:5-8). That will definitely preserve the unity of the body.
Then Paul says to âassociate with the lowly.â The word âassociateâ is synapĂĄgĹ and is only used two other times (Galatians 2:13 and 2 Peter 3:17) where it is used in a negative way. The Topical Lexicon says the use of the word in todayâs verse means âBelievers are urged to let themselves be âcarried along withâ the humble, rather than drifting toward social pride.â
Finally, Paul tells us to ânot be wise in your own estimation.â I am reminded of Proverbs 18:1-2 which reads, â1 One who separates himself seeks his own desire; he quarrels against all sound wisdom. 2 A fool does not delight in understanding, but in revealing his own mind.â Donât be a fool. Be wise how you treat others. Letâs all relearn those toddler skills we instill in our children and grandchildren. The world and the body of Christ would be much better. Amen?
Give me a humble heart and allow me to see others as more important than myself.
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