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IF ONLY…

 1 Kings 9:4-5 “‘4 As for you, if you will walk before Me as your father David walked, in integrity of heart and uprightness, doing according to all that I have commanded you and will keep My statutes and My ordinances, 5 then I will establish the throne of your kingdom over Israel forever, just as I promised to your father David, saying, “You shall not lack a man on the throne of Israel.”’”

 CHOICES HAVE CONSEQUENCES

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BEWARE

 2 Samuel 14:33b “Thus he came to the king and prostrated himself on his face to the ground before the king, and the king kissed Absalom.”

FALSE REMORSE

Have you ever had someone come to you and apologize, and you knew they didn’t really mean it?  You know they were either being forced to do this or they had an ulterior motive.  This is what we have here with Absalom.  He wasn’t sorry.  You can see that clearly if you continue to read in 2 Samuel.  Absalom just wanted to come home so he could be “the king’s son” again.

Position has its privilege, and Absalom wanted the privilege.  He was proud and cocky.  He had no sooner seen the king after 5 years of exile (3 away and 2 back at home) than he began his plot to overthrow his father.  You can’t always believe people.  But David kissed his son anyway.

TEACHING MOMENT

 Teaching our children to forgive is hard.  There is really no way to do that other than modeling it for them.  I am sure, as a parent, you have told your little Johnny to tell his sister he was sorry after hitting her.  And he probably reluctantly did that, but you and his sister knew he didn’t mean it.  Only time would tell if he really was sorry.

But we still have to teach them.  We still have to forgive others.  We still have to give them the benefit of the doubt.  Just think how many times the Lord forgives you when you are less than honest with Him.  He loves you and wants you to come to Him in repentance.  Only time will tell if you are truly remorseful.

Are you forgiving others?  Are you repentant yourself?  Try today to truly forgive someone.  Perhaps someone has wronged you in the past and you are holding on to that.  Let it go.  Maybe someone will approach you today and ask for forgiveness.  Give it to them.  Remember you too are in need of forgiveness every day.

Father in Heaven, forgive me today.  Give me the strength to forgive others also.  Help me model forgiveness and repentance to others.

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LOSING YOUR HEAD

2 Samuel 4:7 “Now when they came into the house, as he was lying on his bed in his bedroom, they struck him and killed him and beheaded him. And they took his head and traveled by way of the Arabah all night.”

THAT CAN MEAN A LOT OF THINGS

 I am sure you have heard that expression “lost their head.”  Most of the time when we hear that it means someone just went crazy for a bit.  They got angry and spouted off.  But in this story, Ish-bosheth literally lost his head, but it wasn’t for anything he had done.  He was murdered.  And to make the matter worse, the two who murdered him thought they were doing David, the new king, a favor.

In fact, those two men are the ones who lost their heads.  They took matters into their own hands and acted on behalf of someone for whom they had no business representing.  And it cost them their lives.  David would have no part of an innocent man’s murder.

TEACHING MOMENT

Children can get upset and “lose their heads” sometimes too.  As parents, one of our jobs is to teach them to maintain their cool.  Emotionally stability is important.  No one wants to be around someone who is constantly blowing up and railing at others.  Your children need to learn to stop, breathe and ask the Lord for peace.

Now, this all sounds easy.  It is not.  But remember peace comes from within.  The Spirit of God gives our children, if they are believers, the peace they need to handle any situation.  The only real peace is that which comes from the Father.  He is the ultimate peace maker and peace sustainer.

Are you a model of peace in your home or are you the one who is always “losing your head”?  What will your children learn from you?  Does the peace that transcends all understanding control you?  Let His peace transform your mind today.

God, I know Your peace can fill me.  I have felt it before.  Help me stop and rest in Your peace.  Help me model that for others.

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