2 TIMOTHY 4:20
“Erastus remained at Corinth, but Trophimus I left sick at Miletus.”
Both Erastus and Trophimus were trusted colleagues of Paul on his missionary journeys. Paul knew them both well and wanted to make sure Timothy conveyed his greetings in his farewell letter. Erastus was the treasurer of Corinth, so he was probably very well known. What an opportunity he had to share the Gospel.
Trophimus was left in Miletus by Paul when he became sick. Now, let’s talk about that. Didn’t Paul have the gift of healing? He had healed many people. So, why didn’t he just say, “Get up Trophimus. We’ve got to go.” Because God directs and does the healing, not us. We don’t decide when and whom to heal.
Unless your children remain in your home all their life and you never move and their friends do the same, they are going to leave friends behind. That can be hard. I know it was for my children. We made a few moves during their childhood which forced them to leave friends and make new ones. So, how do we prepare them for that? What can we say and do to make that easier?
Here are few ideas:
- Invest in their friends while they are with them. Get to know them.
- Get to know their parents. Know them by name and talk about them to your children.
- Help your children share Jesus with them. Leaving behind a saved friend, knowing you will see them in eternity, is so much easier.
- Help your children make contact after the move easier. Let them FaceTime or Skype their friends.
- Pray with your children for those friends. Keep up with their prayer needs through their parents and pass them on to your children.
Now, these won’t prevent the tears from flowing when the parting comes. But knowing the separation is temporary (only here on earth) can be such a comfort. Do you have a friend that comes to mind whom you have had to leave behind? Why not this week reach out to them. It is so much easier today. And say a prayer for them. That’s the oldest form of long distance communication.
Father, thank You for friends. Thank You for companions who You put in our path through life. I ask You today to bless them.