ROMANS 14:13
“Therefore, let’s not judge one another anymore, but rather determine this: not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a brother’s or sister’s way.”
The topic of not being a stumbling block to others is not unique to today’s verse. There are actually two different Greek words used to describe “an obstacle” and “a stumbling block.” We will look at each in today’s study. But let us begin with a quote from one of my favorite commentaries. I agree with Barnes when he says, “If every Christian, instead of judging his brethren severely, would resolve that ‘he’ would so live as to promote peace, and so as not to lead others into sin, it would tend more, perhaps, than any other thing to advance the harmony and purity of the church of Christ.” There we have it!
Paul is so concerned that we as followers of Christ do nothing to hurt the chances for others to walk victoriously with Jesus. We shouldn’t judge harshly which could turn someone away. We shouldn’t behave in such a way to confuse a young follower or an unbeliever. He urges us to not be a determent to anyone in today’s verse.
APPLICATION
“Obstacle” is the Greek word proskomma. It means “any obstacle that causes a person to trip, literally on a path or figuratively on the way of faith.” (Topical Lexicon). We see that word used four times in Romans (9:32, 33; 14:13, 20). It is used by Paul again in 1 Corinthians 8:9 where he writes, “But take care that this freedom of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.” This was written in the context of eating food which may have been sacrificed to idols. Interestingly, this word is used once more in 1 Peter 2:8 to describe Jesus when Peter quotes from Isaiah 8:14. “and, ‘A STONE OF STUMBLING AND A ROCK OF OFFENSE’”
The other word Paul uses in today’s verse is translated as “stumbling block.” It is skándalon. It is used three other times in Romans (9:33; 11:9; 16:17). This word represents the trigger or mechanism which closes a trap on an unsuspecting prey. We should never set a trap for another person to make them fall into sin. You and I have heard far too many stories of Christian leaders who have done this. They will answer for this one day.
Who is watching you? Are there little ones who mimic your every move? How awful it would be for them to see you engaged in some sinful activity and cause them to choose a similar action. Our intentions toward others must always be about building them up in Christ. We do that my setting the example ourselves. We do that by living holy lives worthy of imitating. Will you do that this week? Be Jesus to those around you.
Father, I am far from perfect, but I want to be just like You so others will follow You, not me.
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