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Aroma, Bible, Fragrant, Sacrifice, Scripture, Testimony, Witnessing

A GOOD COLOGNE

EPHESIANS 5:2

“and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.”

Men don’t seem to wear cologne as much as they used to. My favorite growing up was Brut. My dad wore that, so I used to slip into his bathroom and splash some on. Man, I smelled good. I graduated to other fragrances over the years, some more expensive than others. But no amount of cologne could effectively cover up stink. It would always leak through and spoil the real fragrance of that cologne.

I love the imagery here that Paul uses. He tells us to “walk in love” but not in just any way. We are to walk “just as Christ also loved” us. He was a “fragrant aroma” in the nostrils of His Father. We will also give off that same aroma if we walk in love as He did. Our sacrificial living wafts up to heaven where the Lord looks down and smiles. Remember, a sacrifice was burned on the altar. Those blood sacrifices required a death. We also must die to ourselves to become that “fragrant aroma.”

APPLICATION

Since that Greek word for “fragrant” is only use two other times in the New Testament, let’s take a look at them. In 2 Corinthians 2:15 we find, “For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing:” You see, our “fragrance” is noticed by others. Just as when I go outside for a second, my wife can smell it on me, I want others to smell it when I have been with Jesus. Amen?

The other time the word is used is in Philippians 4:18 where it says, “But I have received everything in full and have an abundance; I am amply supplied, having received from Epaphroditus what you have sent, a fragrant aroma, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God.” Even our gift giving, if given with the right motive, can be a fragrant aroma.

So, how are you smelling today? Are you giving off the fragrance of Christ around you? Do others smell Jesus on you? When we walk in a room His fragrance should be coming out of our pores in order to draw people to Him. Try freshening up today. Spend a little more time with Him to get fully immersed in His fragrance.

Lord, I want to smell like You. I want everything I do to give off a fragrant aroma of Christ.

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Abiding, Bible, Forgiveness, Holy, Imitation, Righteousness, Scripture

IMITATE

EPHESIANS 5:1

“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children;” 

Isn’t it cute when you see a small child imitating their parent? When we lived in South Carolina, my son when he was three or four years old would follow behind me as I mowed the lawn with his little bubble mower. Do you remember those? They would blow out tiny little bubbles as you pushed it. He loved that thing and would pretend to be cutting the grass with me. (Don’t worry, we had him following a safe distance.) And now, guess what he does for a living. Yep, he has his own lawncare and landscaping business.

Paul begins chapter five (there really weren’t any chapters in the original) with a continuation of the idea he was writing in the previous verses. The word “therefore” ties these two chapters together. Then he says, “be imitators of God.” Okay, Paul, let’s keep that bar high. Imitate God? It’s not possible, right? God does not expect us to be just like Him, only to strive to be like Him. We will not reach perfection until we receive our glorified bodies in heaven. Until then we imitate Him.

APPLICATION

The word used by Paul here for “imitators” is mimētḗs. It is used five other times in the New Testament (1 Corinthians 4:16; 11:1; 1 Thessalonians 1:6; 2:14 and Hebrews 6:12) and each time in a positive manner. It means to act like or mimic someone. In fact, we get our English word “mimic” from the root of the word. It refers to emulating someone worthy of it. And certainly, God is worthy. Amen? So, mimic Him. But what does that mean?

In Gill’s Exposition we read, “Be ye therefore followers of God,…. Not in his works of infinite wisdom and almighty power, which is impossible; but in acts of righteousness and holiness, and particularly in acts of mercy, goodness, and beneficence; as in forgiving injuries and offences, and in freely distributing to the necessities of the saints; as the connection of the words with the preceding chapter, and the instance and example in the following verse show: and this should be done by the saints,.”

Can you be righteous and holy? Yes! Can you show mercy and goodness and be benevolent? Yes! Can you forgive someone? Yes! Can you provide for the needy? Yes! So, we can all mimic or imitate God, if we want to. Do you want to?

Father, help me follow Your example each and every day.

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Bible, Compassion, Forgiveness, Kindness, Scripture

HOW DO YOU WANT TO BE FORGIVEN?

EPHESIANS 4:32

“Be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”

Oh wow! What a verse! This should be so easy for us, shouldn’t it? If we love Jesus, we should be kind, compassionate and forgiving. I have been hurt in the past that demanded my forgiveness. I have hurt others in the past that required me to seek forgiveness. It takes an effort. It’s not natural to our flesh, but it is natural to Christ.

Paul wants so much for these believers to whom he is writing to know the joy that comes from kindness, compassion and forgiveness. The body of Christ can’t function fully without these being practiced. The Greek word for “kind” is chrestos which is really a combination of kindness and goodness. This only comes from God. “Compassion” is eusplagchnos. I have to quote this definition because you probably wouldn’t believe me otherwise. HELPS Word studies says it is “the visceral organs (bowels) as they exercise positive gut-level sympathy (empathy, compassion) – i.e. ‘living with guts.’” And “forgiving” is xarízomai which is show grace or favor to someone.

APPLICATION

Can I address the forgiveness thing first? I truly believe this is the hardest things for Christians to get victory over. It is hard to forgive sometimes when we have been hurt. But Christ demands that we do it. Look back at the verse for today and focus on that last phrase which says, “just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” How has Christ forgiven you? How much has Christ forgiven you? And we won’t forgive someone for something they may have done to us? That is really sad.

I also believe you truly can’t forgive unless you show kindness and compassion. That word for compassion is only used one other time in 1 Peter 3:8. “To sum up, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, loving, compassionate, and humble;” Kindness doesn’t take a lot of effort, does it? We can all be kind.

One last thing about today’s verse. Both verbs that are used here, “be” and “forgiving,” are Present Imperatives. That means they are commands that you are to keep doing. You don’t do these once and stop. They are continuous – just like Christ continually forgives you. Be Jesus to someone today by being kind, compassionate and forgiving.

Lord, I don’t have the capacity to do these things, but in Your strength I can.

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Anger, Bible, Cleansing, Remove, Scripture

GET RID OF IT ALL

EPHESIANS 4:31

“All bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander must be removed from you, along with all malice.”

I have to admit it – I can be a packrat. My wife accuses me all the time of hanging on to stuff that I should throw away. I am reluctant to throw away that scrap piece of wood because I might could use it someday. And that piece of pipe or rope might be just what I need one day for… I need to learn to get rid of the trash in my stuff.

Now, that’s a very loose illustration of what Paul is talking about today. Where the things I mentioned may have once had a purpose, the things he mentions in verse 31 never have a purpose. Look at the list. Bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander and malice. Wow! Why would any Christian have such things in their lives? Don’t forget that Paul is addressing former pagans in the Ephesian church. Oh yeah, so were we!

APPLICATION

I could use this blog to define each of the words listed in today’s verse. But you can do that. Let me encourage each of you to go to Biblehub.com or blueletterbible.com and look up each of the words to see what they mean. I want to concentrate on the first word of the verse – “all.” It’s a little word that is often overlooked.

The Greek word is pas. It “means ‘all’ in the sense of ‘each (every) part that applies.’ The emphasis of the total picture then is on ‘one piece at a time.’” (HELPS Word studies). When Paul says get rid of “all” of this, he means each and ever part. We can’t get rid of bitterness and keep the malice. Slander can’t be removed while we keep our anger.

Paul has been talking a lot about anger in the last several verses and all of these things he mentions in today’s verse can be identified with anger. Getting rid of anger, I believe, is the key. Oh, that’s hard, isn’t it. After all, you probably have a right to be angry. I get it. I really do. I’ve been there. Well, let’s be honest, I’m still there sometimes. But anger has to go. You can do it. I can do it – with the help of the Lord. Let it all go.

Oh Lord, my God, rid me of the anger that is within me.

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DO NOT GRIEVE

EPHESIANS 4:30

“Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”

When I was a teenager, I did some things that grieved my parents. They had raised me better than that. But I wanted to do what I wanted to do. I had no other reason. And when my sins were exposed (and they always are), they were grieved. Yea, they were mad too and issued out the appropriate consequence. But the grief I caused hurt more than the actual getting caught or the consequence.

Let me say right off that “grieving” the Spirit is not the same as “quenching” the Spirit. The latter refers to denying and refusing to believe, thus ends in damnation. That is not what Paul is saying here. We are sealed with the Spirt. We saw that back in Ephesians 1:13. He is in us, therefore, everything we do He is aware of and exposed to. The word used here for grieve is lupeo which means to pain, grieve or vex. I know you don’t want to pain the Holy Spirit.

APPLICATION

So, if we don’t want to do that, how do we prevent it? We live holy lives free from those things that could grieve the Spirit. Albert Barnes lists these behaviors that could lead to that:

  1. Open and gross sins
  2. Anger, in all its forms
  3. Licentious thoughts and desires
  4. Ingratitude
  5. Neglect
  6. Resistance

Here is a great verse to show you a comparison. It’s one most of us know. 1 Thessalonians 4:13 says, “But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who are asleep, so that you will not grieve as indeed the rest of mankind do, who have no hope.” If you have ever lost a loved one, you know the pain of grief. That is the same kind of grief we cause the Spirit when we sin.

I know this is a heavy lesson, but it is one we experience every day. We face the temptations of sin daily. If we stopped to think how much grief this causes God through the Holy Spirit Who lives in us, we may just stop ourselves. Better yet, we will let Him stop us. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit Who is within you, Who has sealed you for the day of your redemption.

Thank You, Father, that You have placed in me Your Holy Spirit to strengthen and encourage me towards holy living. 

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Bible, Blessing, Edification, Scripture, Tongue, Words

USE THE RIGHT WORDS

EPHESIANS 4:29

“Let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but if there is any good word for edification according to the need of the moment, say that, so that it will give grace to those who hear.”

How many times have you said something only to regret it a second later? The words just slipped out of your mouth. Sure, you were thinking them, but you didn’t mean to say them. Or maybe you did mean to say them. You meant to inflict harm on someone’s feelings. You knew exactly what you were saying. Words are like toothpaste – once they are out it is impossible to get them back in.

Paul knew the danger of unwholesome words. I am sure he had heard plenty of those when he was a pharisee. But what does that word “unwholesome” even mean? The Greek word is sapros which means “rotten, useless, corrupt, depraved” (Strong’s Concordance). The word was used primarily to refer to fruits or vegetables that were overripe or putrid. Hmmm, what does that say about these unwholesome words in our mouth?

APPLICATION

The word sapros is used in Matthew 7:17-18, “17 ‘So every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad  tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.’” It’s interesting to me that sapros is used here to describe the tree (the source of the fruit) and not the fruit (the product). What does that say about us when we use unwholesome words?

Sapros is also used in Matthew 13:47-48 when Jesus told the parable about the dragnet. “47 ‘Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a dragnet that was cast into the sea and gathered fish of every kind; 48 and when it was filled, they pulled it up on the beach; and they sat down and gathered the good fish into containers, but the bad they threw away.’” Jesus will not receive these unwholesome words any more than He will receive these bad fish.

I believe the key to today’s verse is found in the last phrase – “so that it will give grace to those who hear.” We should only use words that give grace. What does that mean? It means to bless them in some way. We are to build them up not tear them down. Today choose your words carefully. Edify and give grace.

The tongue is a slippery thing and can cause much damage. Help me guard my tongue today, O Lord.

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Bible, Blessing, Giving, Money, Scripture, Sharing

SHARING WITH OTHERS

EPHESIANS 4:28

“The one who steals must no longer steal; but rather he must labor, producing with his own hands what is good, so that he will have something to share with the one who has need.”

I have never been a wealthy man, but I do love to give to individuals or causes when the Lord prompts me. There is just something about helping someone who has a real need. I have had the opportunity from time to time to bless a friend who just had a baby or to assist a brother with a ministry need. I have even been able to help meet more urgent needs like someone who had an unexpected life event (death in family, home fire, etc). It is such a blessing to be able to give when I can.

We are instructed by Paul in today’s verse to do just that. He tells us that we work and labor for just that purpose. Look at the verse. We labor “so that we (he) will have something to share with one who has need.” That was not the first thing people thought about in Ephesus. Self-centeredness has been around a long time. But Paul told the Ephesians and tells us today that we are blessed with resources to share.

APPLICATION

The word translated “share” is metadidómi. It means to give a share of something. In Luke 3:11 Jesus says this about sharing, “And he would answer and say to them, ‘The one who has two tunics is to share with the one who has none; and the one who has food is to do likewise.’” If Jesus expected us to share, why wouldn’t we?

In Romans 12:8, Paul is writing about our spiritual gifts. He mentions giving in that list. “…the one who gives, with generosity;…” Giving is a gift of the Spirit. Now, before you say Well Carl, that gift just skipped right over me. That’s not how it works. When we receive the Spirit of God in our lives, we receive all the gifts of the Spirit. Sure, some are more prominent in our lives than others, but this gift of giving is part of the Spirit’s gifts to us. We just may choose to not exercise that gift.

This sharing, however, is not just about money or resources. It may involve our very selves. Look at 1 Thessalonians 2:8, “in the same way we had a fond affection for you and were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us.” So, the question is really, why aren’t we sharing more?

Lord, give me the desire and ability to be a blessing to someone else today.

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Anger, Bible, Devil, Opportunity, Scripture

NOT AN INCH

EPHESIANS 4:27

“and do not give the devil an opportunity.”

You’ve heard the saying, “If you give them an inch, they’ll take a mile.” It is so true in so many circumstances. Some people will nudge their way in and then take over. It may be very subtle to begin with. You don’t even notice it. Then one day you wake up and they are in charge of everything. Little by little by little. We have to be aware, don’t we.

As Paul finishes up this thought that he began a few verses back, he says in today’s verse to simply not give the devil any room to operate. The word used here translated as “opportunity” really means a spot, a position limited in space. The devil will settle for a small spot in order to get in. He knows if he does, he can begin to infiltrate the rest of your life. Paul knew that, so he warns the Ephesians and us. Keep guard. Keep him out.

APPLICATION

This certainly applies to my life. I know how easy it is to let things slide. When I went to college, I was a brand new believer. I had been saved one year before. I was ready to take on that university campus for Jesus. And I did get involved with the Baptist Student Union. I did share Jesus with my friends and dormmates. But I also allowed my convictions to get influenced ever so slightly. When I left the university, I was at best a moderate. I had moved. Satan had easily guided me there.

One commentator says this about giving that opportunity to the devil. “that is, occasion, or scope, to the devil, by continuing in ‘wrath.’ The keeping of anger through the darkness of night, is giving place to the devil, the prince of darkness.” Let that anger go. If you don’t, the devil will use it. He will build a stronghold in your life that will imprison you.

In Luke 22:3 we find this interesting passage. “And Satan entered Judas, the one called Iscariot, who belonged to the number of the twelve.” Judas, who walked with Jesus daily, allowed Satan to take a spot in his life. His anger over Jesus not fulfilling his expectations of the Messiah overwhelmed him. And poof – Satan was right there to entice and infiltrate. Beware. He is on the prowl (1 Peter 5:8).

Father, I give You control over my thoughts and actions to safeguard me against the devil’s influences

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Anger, Bible, Peace, Scripture, Sin

BE ANGRY?

EPHESIANS 4:26

“BE ANGRY, AND YET DO NOT SIN; do not let the sun go down on your anger,”

I bet you never get angry. The water is different at your house. Right! We all get angry from time to time. The problem with anger is we normally let our emotions get the best of us and say or do things we normally would not. We get angry in traffic (confession time). We get angry at the weather, like that’s gonna help. We get angry at the alarm clock. Can I get an amen? Fortunately, we have some instructions in God’s Word about how to handle our anger.

Paul gives us some vital instructions in verses 26 and 27 (we will see that verse tomorrow). I felt the definition in HELPS Word studies was too good to not include the whole thing. The word for “be angry” is orgízō. It means to “be angry, as expressing a ‘fixed anger’ (settled opposition). Orgízo is positive when inspired by God – and always negative when arising from the flesh. “Sinful (unnecessary) anger’ focuses on punishing the offender rather than the moral content of the offense.”

APPLICATION

Wasn’t that good? Anger can be good or bad, depending on the source. We all know the story of Jesus getting angry in the Temple and overturning the money changers’ tables (Matthew 21:12). But listen, that does not give us the right to run in somewhere and start tearing things up. James 1:20 says, “The anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.” Just because Jesus did it, that does not mean we should act that way. Remember, He was (and still is) God.

I like verse 26 because I can easily follow this command. Well…the first two words, lol. But the verse does not stop there. Paul goes on to tell us, “And yet do not sin.” Did you know Paul was quoting Psalm 4:4? It says, “Tremble, and do not sin; Meditate in your heart upon your bed and be still. Selah.” It’s not an exact quotation but obviously the same idea is there.

What gets you angry? Can you get angry and not sin? That’s a hard one, isn’t it? Paul closes this verse by telling us to make things right before we lay our heads down each night. I have to admit I haven’t always done that. That’s wrong. That’s not what God tells us to do here. Can you practice this verse today and then again tomorrow and the day after that? In the absence of anger peace arises.

O Lord, let me not get angry over things that are no importance to You. Help me keep my anger in check with all my loved ones.

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Bible, Body, Falsehoods, Freedom, Trust, Trustworthy, Truth

STOP THAT LYING

EPHESIANS 4:25

“Therefore, ridding yourselves of falsehood, SPEAK TRUTH EACH ONE OF YOU WITH HIS NEIGHBOR, because we are parts of one another.”

Boy, I remember growing up with three siblings. There were always lies flying around. “Who broke that?” “It was Tim.” “Who didn’t take out the trash?” “Cheryl was supposed to do that.” I could continue, but you get the picture. There was no way I was going to own up to something that I could possibly get away with. Lying was like breathing, lol. Yea, those were small lies, but they were still lies and once caught (and I almost always was), I got the expected consequence, a spanking (yep, my parents believed in that).

The Ephesian believers had been immersed in a pagan culture for years. Now they are new creations in Christ which demanded a different lifestyle. Lying was customary in paganism. Honesty was rare. That bad habit, that lifestyle had to go. The word “falsehood” is pseudos, which literally means a lie, an untruth. Paul is telling them that because they are part of each other now in the body of Christ, truth must be practiced.

APPLICATION

John uses this word pseudos in 1 John 2:21 and 27. “I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you do know it, and because no lie is of the truth.” “And as for you, the anointing which you received from Him remains in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you remain in Him.” Truth is important. Jesus called Himself the truth, didn’t He? Therefore, I can’t imagine Him approving of our lying.

Over in Romans 1:25, Paul talks about the danger of lies. “For they exchanged the truth of God for falsehood, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.” You see, the opposite of truth is falsehood. If you are not practicing the truth, you are practicing falsehood. We must live in the truth.

The next time you are tempted to lie about something, remember this verse. Remember how Jesus called Himself the truth. Remember what God requires. Remember you are part of the body of Christ. Walk in the truth and then you will be walking with Jesus.

The truth will surely set me free. Thank You, Father, for giving me the truth.

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