PHILIPPIANS 4:14

“Nevertheless, you have done well to share with me in my difficulty.”

Sharing is not something that is natural. Just watch a room of two-year-olds playing together in a playroom. It won’t be long until one child wants the toy another child has, and the fight begins. Instead of sharing that toy with the other child, that child gets a death grip on that toy. He is not letting go, no matter what.

Paul compliments the Philippians believers in today’s verse by telling them they “have done well to share” with him in his difficulty or afflictions. They had not forgotten him. They had sent the gift to him to help meet his needs. Don’t you know they beamed with pride when they read those words “you have done well”? Man, I want to hear that from my Lord one day, don’t you?

APPLICATION

The word Paul uses here for “share” is only used two other times in the New Testament, both in a negative way. In Ephesians 5:11 we are told to “not participate in the useless deeds of darkness,…” And in Revelation 18:4, John writes, “so that you will not participate in her sins and receive any of her plagues;…” Only here in Philippians 4:14 is it used positively.

Just like the Philippians did with Paul, we are to share in others’ suffering. We are to come alongside them and encourage them. We are to assist where and when possible, without enabling or lengthening their suffering. Who can you share that with today? Maybe a neighbor going through a hard time. Maybe a stranger who needs a helping hand. Look around and ask the Lord. He’ll show you.

The end result? We will hear our Savior say, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” Oh, I long to hear those words. He whispers it to me when I love my wife well. He reminds me of it every time I yield to the Spirit and not to the flesh. If you want to hear those words, cling to Him. Share suffering and hardships with others through giving or going. Well done!

I praise You, Father, for allowing me the privilege to share in others’ suffering. Help me to answer Your call each time You ask. 

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