EPHESIANS 5:3

“But sexual immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be mentioned among you, as is proper among saints;”

There are some things you just don’t want to talk about. For instance, I don’t want to talk about a gruesome, elaborate surgery. Just the thought makes me squeamish. I don’t want to hear about possible side effects of medications. If I hear them, I am bound to get them. And some sports fans don’t want to hear their biggest rival’s name mentioned.

Paul is dealing with something much more serious – spiritually serious. He warns the Ephesians (and us) to not even mention sexual immorality, impurity or greed. Why? Because these are not “proper among saints.” Paul knew if you talked about such things your mind would be focused on them. If I say, don’t think about ice cream, what did you just think about? Ice cream! What’s on our tongues originates in our minds.

APPLICATION

I don’t think I have to go into a deep discussion here about these three things Paul mentions. These new believers were well acquainted with these sinful behaviors, having come out of the pagan worship scene of Ephesus. Sexual immorality and impurity were part of the normal behaviors for many in Ephesus. Greed was commonplace. So, Paul tells them to get those thoughts out of their minds.

He uses a strong negative here in the verse which really means “don’t even mention.” Let it be the furthest thing on their minds. They have a new life now in Christ. Paul tells them so in the last phrase. They are holy people now, bathed in the blood of Christ. The word translated as “proper” can mean “fitting or suitable.” This is usually referring to godly behavior. They have been changed and should live like it.

When we come to Christ and surrender our lives to Him, we have chosen a new life. We cannot continue to frequent the same bars we once frequented. We cannot continue to live in a fleshly relationship with someone outside of marriage. We cannot… You get the message. Our inward change is reflected in an outward change. I am not saying we become perfect but are commanded to live lives that reflect God’s holiness that is within us. Let His light shine through you.

Lord, I know I will never achieve perfection this side of glory, but I want to strive for that every day.