Category Archives: Maturity

Attitude, Bible, Completeness, Humility, Maturity, Scripture

CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE

PHILIPPIANS 3:15

Therefore, all who are mature, let’s have this attitude; and if in anything you have a different attitude, God will reveal that to you as well;”

Watch your attitude, young man. I probably heard that more than once while I was growing up. I did have a little chip on my shoulder as a teenager. I thought I had something to prove. I could get a little cocky and arrogant. Teachers and coaches would call me on it, thank the Lord. I was never allowed to get way out of line. I had that healthy fear of my dad. I didn’t want to disappoint him.

I could have used this verse back then. Paul tells us to check our attitude. He says, “all who are mature.” If you understand the Scriptures, if you are trying to live for the Lord, have this attitude. The Greek word for “attitude” is phroneó, which means “1. to exercise the mind, i.e. entertain or have a sentiment or opinion 2. (by implication) to be (mentally) disposed (more or less earnestly in a certain direction) 3. (intensively) to interest oneself in (with concern or obedience). (Lexicon). The word is used 26 times in the New Testament, 23 times by Paul. It’s used 10 times in Philippians alone.

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We have already seen Paul use phroneó four times in this letter to Philippi and will see it used four more times. Obviously, Paul was addressing an attitude problem, lol. No, I don’t want to imply the Philippians had a problem with their attitude. But any church faces the danger of this. Perhaps, some in the church had become proud because of all they had done to support Paul. Paul’s motive, though, is to point them to the right attitude which can only be found in Christ.

Romans 12:16 is a perfect illustration of what Paul is talking about. “Be of the same mind  toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation.” What’s Paul talking about? Humility! We saw that in Jesus. We see that in Paul. We should have the same attitude, the same mindset.

So, today I ask you (as I am asking myself) to check your attitude. Our minds need to be focused on how to please our Lord. If others aren’t happy about that, we cannot be concerned about that. Our loyalty, our obedience is to Jesus. Have His mind, as Paul said back in Philippians 2:5-8. Reread that if you need to. Get your attitude in line with His.

Father, help me check my attitude today so that I will be in line with all You teach.

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Bible, Completeness, Maturity, Perfection, Scripture

COMPLETE IN CHRIST

COLOSSIANS 1:28

“We proclaim Him, admonishing every person and teaching every person with all wisdom, so that we may present every person complete in Christ.” 

I have been a follower of Christ since I was 16, but I have still not arrived. I have matured a lot since way back then, but  there is a lot I don’t understand. I am not completely complete, but yet I am positionally. Confused? Don’t be. Let’s take a look at what Paul means by today’s words to us in verse 28.

Paul is saying our aim should be to bring all followers of Christ into completion. “so that we may present every person complete in Christ.” The word “complete” is téleios. It means “going through the necessary stages to reach the end–goal,…This root (tel-) means ‘reaching the end (aim).’ It is well-illustrated with the old pirate’s telescope, unfolding (extending out) one stage at a time to function at full-strength (capacity effectiveness).” (HELPS Word Studies)

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This word is used in Matthew 5:48 by Jesus to describe us and God. “Therefore you shall be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. What?! We’re supposed to be perfect? That’s what Jesus said. We know Jesus would not lie or exaggerate about this. Our purpose, our goal is to be like Him. He was perfect. He was complete. We should be like Him.

Paul uses this word in 1 Corinthians 2:6a, “Yet we do speak wisdom among those who are mature;” That’s the idea that I really want to get across. Our goal each day as a Christ follower should be to grow more like Him. We should always be maturing in faith. It’s too sad that we choose sometimes to regress and go backwards.

I love how James uses this word in James 1:4 where he is speaking about the purpose of trials. “And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” God allows trials in our lives to mature us, to grow us up. Enjoy the journey He has for you, knowing His plan is to make you more and more like Him.

Lord, I want to be like You. Grow me and mature me to be perfect like You.

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Abiding, Bible, Growth, Maturity, Measure, Scripture

OUR STATURE

EPHESIANS 4:13

“until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.”

I bet a lot of you had a door frame somewhere in your house where your parents recorded yours and your siblings’ (if you had any) heights as you grew. I know some people who actually removed that part of the door frame when they moved to maintain that history. Seeing your gain in height each year was kind of cool. It’s too bad we don’t have the same kind of measuring rod for our spiritual growth. Oh wait, we do!

In today’s verse, Paul gives us that measuring rod. We are measured against the “stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.” Of course, Paul wasn’t referring to Christ’s physical stature. He was pointing us towards His spiritual maturity, which is perfect. He was telling the Ephesians and is telling us that our goal in our spiritual life is to be more like Jesus. That’s a pretty lofty goal, but we should always aim high.

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This same Greek word for “stature” is used in John 9 when the blind man was healed by Jesus. Remember when the Pharisees questioned his parents about his blindness and how he was healed they told them to ask their son because “he is of age.” That is the same word. Their son was mature. He was a grown man. They were not referring to his spiritual growth. After all, he had just been introduced to Jesus. He knew Jesus was a miracle worker, but he had so much more to learn.

Have you ever thought about all those people whom Jesus healed or raised? We only know of the results surrounding Mary Magdalene and Lazarus. All the others could have been healed miraculously and never grown spiritually. I guess we’ll find out one day in heaven. I want to meet that leper he healed, if he is there. I want to meet the slave of the Centurion who was healed, if they are there. I want to meet that thief on the cross. I know he’ll be there.

The length of our physical life has nothing to do with our spiritual growth. There are a lot of old people who are still on the bottle spiritually, and there are a lot of teenagers who are chewing on solid food and are discipling others. What is your stature in Christ? How do you measure up. If Jesus put you up against the door frame to measure you spiritually, would you have grown since last year?

God, I want to grow and be more like you each and every day.

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Babies, Bible, Birth, Growth, Maturity, Scripture

BIRTH PAINS

GALATIANS 4:19

“My children, with whom I am again in labor until Christ is formed in you—”

I will never forget watching my wife give birth to our children. I was in the room with her for both. With our first, she had an epidural which blocked most of the pain. With our second there wasn’t time for that. Watching her in pain broke my heart but I knew it had to be done. She couldn’t keep that baby inside of her forever. I also knew she would soon forget that pain when she saw that baby and got to hold it. The birth pains were worth it.

Paul uses the analogy of giving birth to compare the pain he had endured in “giving birth” to these Galatians in the faith. Witnessing and discipling can be laborious tasks, even for those in full time ministry. But we should all have the same heart as Paul – it is worth it to see them grow into maturity in Christ. That is what is meant by “until Christ is formed in you.”

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Who are you “giving birth” to right now? Are you purposely pouring into a new believer? We all, as believers in Jesus, should share what He has taught us and given us. We need to labor as Paul did. 2 Timothy 2:2 is a verse we use quite often in our ministry. “And the things you heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.” Multi-generational growth!

Whether you do that one-on-one or in a small group, start “giving birth” to those young believers, those who are brand new to the faith. They need your wisdom in how to apply God’s Word to their lives. Or maybe you are the one who needs someone laboring over them. Reach out to someone and ask them to mentor you. There are a lot of great tools out there for that.

Especially for you men out there – check out the curriculum we use in Every Man A Warrior (www.everymanawarrior.com). It is designed to take a small group of men through a three book course built just for men. It’s practical, relevant and life changing. We have thousands of men around the world who have seen their lives change and then had the opportunity to lead other men through the course – making disciple makers. Just labor for Jesus and see what He births through you.

I want to labor for You, Lord. Use me in the lives of other men to grow them spiritually.

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Accountability, Age, Bible, Enslavement, Family, Home, Maturity, Responsibilities, Scripture

A CHANGE OF POSITION

GALATIANS 4:7

“Therefore, you are no longer a slave, but a son; and if a son, then an heir through God.”

From time to time in life we have the opportunity to change positions. What do I mean by that? Well, we move from son to father to grandfather (which is the best, by the way). We may move from employee to employer. And for many young ladies, they may move from bridesmaid to bride. All significant changes. All involve a change in responsibilities. But they all also carry with them a change in how they are seen by others.

Paul goes through a progression in today’s verse – slave to son to heir. Of course, Paul is speaking in spiritual terms regarding each of these. We all were once a slave to sin, bound under the chains with no hope for freedom. But as believers in Jesus, we each became sons (or daughters) to our heavenly Father. We are in His family now. And as such, we are now heirs to all our Redeemer possesses. We are called joint-heirs with Christ in Romans 8:17.

APPLICATION

As I mentioned, with a change in position, comes responsibility. In each stage of my life, my responsibilities changed from son to father to grandfather. As a believer, I have responsibilities as part of this family. Billy Graham once said, “Our faith becomes stronger as we express it; a growing faith is a sharing faith.” Do you believe that? Look at these verses.

In Mark 16:15 Jesus said, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.” Paul told Philemon in his letter to him (v. 6), “and I pray that the sharing of your faith may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that is in us for the sake of Christ.” One more. Peter tells us in 1 Peter 3:15-16, “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.”

One of our major responsibilities as believers is to share our faith, to tell others the good news. Will you do that today? Ask the Lord to give you one person to share with today. Ask the Lord to help you lead one person to Jesus today. Share the greatest story ever told. Share how He has changed your life. Do that today.

O Lord, I go so many days without sharing my faith. Give me someone today to talk to about Jesus.

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Bible, Foundation, Learning, Maturity, Salvation, Scripture

THE A, B, C’S

GALATIANS 4:3

“So we too, when we were children, were held in bondage under the elementary principles of the world.”

When I was in college I took Hebrew, Greek, Syriac and Aramaic. I love languages. I am learning Swahili right now. Each of these languages have basic fundamental principles. The above mentioned languages (except Swahili) all had their own alphabet different from the English, so I had to learn that basic foundation before I could begin to learn the language. There are some basic principles to learning.

Paul uses a phrase in today’s verse, “the elementary principles of the world,” that is much debated among the scholars. I like Myer’s New Testament Commentary which says this about this phrase. “The στοιχεῖα τοῦ κόσμου are the elements of non-Christian humanity (κόσμος; see 1 Corinthians 6:2;  1 Corinthians 11:32, et al.), that is, the elementary things, the immature beginnings of religion, which occupy the minds of those who are still without the pale of Christianity.” Let’s talk about that.

APPLICATION

Religion is a good thing until it’s not. Religion can teach you to be moral and good, but not lead you to a saving knowledge of Christ. There are going to be a lot of morally good people in hell. The world loves religion – just not Jesus. The world’s religions want you to feel loved and accepted, but they won’t condemn your sin. Romans 12:2 says it well, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”

It is not a matter of how “religious” you are. It’s about being filled with the Spirit and allowing that Spirit to control your eyes, tongue, actions, etc. In Acts 13:52 it says, “And the disciples were continually filled with joy and with the Holy Spirit.” The Spirit is the best teacher. He will grow you up beyond just the a, b, c’s of religion. He will show you what true faith is about.

I have been a believer for almost 47 years now. I have so much still to learn about submission to the Spirit and Spirit-filled living. But I want to learn. I want to grow into the perfect image of my Savior. I know that won’t happen until I reach Glory, but I will strive each day to learn more and grow more.

Thank You, Lord, for giving me a firm foundation. Help me grow to be more like You.

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Age, Babies, Bible, God's Will, Maturity, Promises, Salvation, Scripture

STILL BABIES

GALATIANS 4:1

“Now I say, as long as the heir is a child, he does not differ at all from a slave, although he is owner of everything,” 

We have all probably heard of a story or two of some young child or infant who inherited a fortune from their parents. Although this child had all this wealth, he was far too young to know how to handle it. So, a guardian was placed in their lives to control the estate up until the time the child reached an age where they could make their own financial decisions.

Paul continues his thought from chapter 3 into chapter 4 (remember, there were no chapters and verses in the original letter he wrote). And in 4:1, Paul uses the analogy of a child heir. The word “child” used here is really an infant. Paul says he has no more control of his inheritance than the slaves who work for him. He is powerless even to make his own decision. But Paul is preparing to show that real freedom, real power comes through knowing Jesus.

APPLICATION

Think back to when you first came to Christ. Before you were saved, you were a slave to sin. You could not escape its snares and traps. Try as you might, you could not affect your spiritual future. Nothing you did was going to gain your salvation. You thought you were in control of your life, but you weren’t.

Let me carry this “baby” analogy a step further. When you came to Christ, you were freed from those bonds. Now what? You were free but totally uninformed on how to live. You were like a baby taking its first steps – a little unsteady. You were looking for anything to hold on to as you started walking in Christ.

I love how Peter says it in 1 Peter 2:2. “and like newborn babies, long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation,” That is the only thing that will give us the strength and knowledge we need to grow into adults spiritually – the Word. Are you going to it daily to get that “pure milk” it offers? Go to it today.

O Father, I know I will not reach full maturity in Christ until I see You face to face, but I long to grow more each day.

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Abiding, Abundance, Battles, Bible, Change, Deliverance, Direction, God's Will, Maturity, Scripture

BUT NOW

ZECHARIAH 8:11

“‘“But now I will not treat the remnant of this people as in the former days,”’” declares the LORD of armies.

Don’t you just love the part of a suspense movie or book when everything changes? The bad guys are about to get what is coming to them, and the good guys are wining. It’s that “but” moment. All this has happened, BUT NOW this is about to happen. A change of fortune has taken place. A cosmic shift just occurred.

Our God says in verse 11 that He will not treat the people as He had treated them before. The literal Hebrew reads, “But now not as in the former days, I, the remnant…” The verb in today’s verse, “will…treat,” is not in the text. The action is implied, based on the previous action of God. I like that because God’s ultimate good treatment of His people is always implied. His good intentions are always there.

APPLICATION

What are the “but now” moments in your life? I could name dozens of them in my life, beginning with the change in my life at salvation. And there was the moment He called me to full-time ministry. There were the seasons of ministry that shifted from one place to another. I could go on, but you get the picture.

Write down those moments you can think of and let me encourage you to keep doing that as they occur. I promise you there will be times ahead when you will need to reflect on your “but now” moments. Those moments shift you from one phase of your Christian journey to another. God is doing something. He is saying, “But now, see what I am going to do in your life.”

I am thankful for those “but now” moments in my life because I know each of those moments brought me closer to God. Colossians 1:22 (CSB) says it perfectly. “But now he has reconciled you by his physical body through his death, to present you holy, faultless, and blameless before him —” Isn’t that a great “but now”?

But now, Lord, I am Yours to do with as You see fit. Use me, Lord, according to Your will.

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Abiding, Age, Bible, Following, Maturity, Salvation, Sanctification, Scripture

GROWING OLD WITH GOD

ZECHARIAH 8:4

“‘The LORD of armies says this: “Old men and old women will again sit in the public squares of Jerusalem, each person with his staff in his hand because of age.”’”

My late brother-in-law, Wayne Barber, used to say, “Growing old ain’t for sissies.” Well, that’s the God’s honest truth, lol. Some people say waking up with pain is just a reminder you’re still alive, lol. I am only in my early 60’s, but I have survived two stem cell transplants and am always at risk for a third flare up of my disease. Struggling with health issues will make you feel old. But I know as long as I live each day for the Lord, He will sustain me.

Today’s verse is the third of ten “thus saith the Lord” type sayings. God is delivering these ten sayings emphatically through Zechariah. Today’s is such a blessing. He is telling the people that they will grow old in Jerusalem once again. They won’t die at an early age due to war. They won’t die in a foreign land. They will grow old at home leaning on their staffs. What a promise to a people who are in desperate need of one.

APPLICATION

How old are you? I know you are not supposed to ask a woman that question, right? But I am not talking about chronological age. I am referring to your spiritual age. How old are you in Christ? I was saved at 16, so I’m @47 years old spiritually. But even that does not say how spiritually mature I am. I know a lot of baby Christians who were saved decades ago. Your spiritual age has more to do with maturity than how long you’ve been saved.

In 1 Corinthians 3:1-3, Paul scolds the Corinthian church for not growing up. Listen to his words and examine yourself with his words. “1 And I, brothers and sisters, could not speak to you as spiritual people, but only as fleshly, as to infants in Christ. 2 I gave you milk to drink, not solid food; for you were not yet able to consume it. But even now you are not yet able, 3 for you are still fleshly. For since there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not fleshly, and are you not walking like ordinary people?”

I want to grow old in Christ, but more importantly, I want to mature in Christ. I want to grow wiser in His Word. I want to know others can come to me for godly advice. The only thing I want to lean on is His Word and His Truth. Everything else will just crumble beneath my hands. So, I ask you again, how old are you?

When we walk with the Lord in the light of his word, what a glory He sheds on our way! While we do His good will, He abides with us still, and with all who will trust and obey. 

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