Category Archives: Love

Bible, Blameless, Love, Scripture, Sincerity

SINCERE AND BLAMELESS

PHILIPPIANS 1:10

“so that you may discover the things that are excellent, that you may be sincere and blameless for the day of Christ;” 

I hate to admit it, but I don’t think I would have been described as “sincere” and “blameless” when I was growing up. I wasn’t a big liar but would definitely lie if I felt a need to do so. And I wasn’t blameless in anything. Bottom line – sin ruled my life. I lived to please my own desires and didn’t really think about how that might affect someone else.

Paul is still in his opening remarks to the Philippian believers. In fact, in verses 3-11, he is telling them how he is praying for them and how much he loves them. Today’s verse is near the end of that introduction. He continues the thought from verse 9 (read yesterday’s blog) and tells them why he is praying for their love to be overflowing. We are going to look at two reasons Paul listed.

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First, Paul says “that you may be sincere…” The Greek word is eilikrinés which “describes something that is genuine, without hidden motives or deceit. In the New Testament, it is used to describe a purity of heart and intention that is transparent and unblemished when exposed to the light of truth.” (Strong’s Lexicon) It is only used one other time in Scripture. In 2 Peter 3:1 we read, “Beloved, this is now the second letter I am writing to you in which I am stirring up your sincere mind by way of a reminder,”. 

Then Paul says in today’s verse, “and blameless.” “Blameless” is the Greek word apropos. It “is used in the New Testament to describe a state of being free from blame or offense, particularly in the context of one’s conduct and interactions with others. It implies a life lived in such a way that does not cause others to stumble in their faith or moral walk. This word emphasizes the importance of integrity and moral uprightness in the life of a believer.” (Strong’s Lexicon)

It is used only two other times in the New Testament. First in Acts 24:16 it says, “In view of this I also do my best to maintain a blameless conscience both before God and before other people, always.” And then over in 1 Corinthians 10:32 Paul uses it again. “Do not offend Jews or Greeks, or the church of God;”

So, ask yourself if you are living in such a way that your life could be describe as sincere and blameless. Could that be written on your gravestone when you die? Would those words be used to describe you in your eulogy? Oh, what a legacy to leave – a sincere and blameless life.

Father, help me live sincere and blameless this day.

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Affection, Bible, Desires, Love, Scripture, Witness

FOR GOD IS MY WITNESS

PHILIPPIANS 1:8

“For God is my witness, how I long for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus.” 

“So help me God” used to be part of the swearing in of any witness in a court of law in the United States. Many courts have since deleted that phrase due to the removal of God from our justice system. A vow to God used to be the highest degree any man could swear by. Whether it is still done or not, that is still the highest level by which anyone could vow. Whether people believe it or not does not change that fact.

Paul uses this phrase in other epistles. In Romans 1:9, he says, “For God, whom I serve in my spirit in the preaching of the gospel of His Son, is my witness as to how unceasingly I make mention of you,” In 2 Corinthians 1:23 he says it again. “But I call God as witness to my soul, that to spare you I did not come again to Corinth.” You can see similar statements in 2 Corinthians 11:31, Galatians 1:20 and 1 Thessalonians 2:5 and 10. Paul did not write this lightly. He knew God was his witness in all things.

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God is still a witness to all we do, whether good or bad. “As God as my witness” should be true for all believers. We, above all people” should realize He is present in all our decisions, all our words and all our actions. To think otherwise would be to disregard His sovereignty in our lives.

But what was Paul claiming God was a witness of? It was how he longed for these Philippian believers with the affection of Christ. The Greek word for “longed for” is epipotheó, which comes from two Greek words, epi and potheó. Epi is used to intensify the word it is connected to. Potheo means to long for or desire. So, this compound word means to intensely long for. Paul had a deep desire for these brothers and sisters in Christ.

Do you have that kind of desire for others’ benefit? Can you honestly say before God this is true? When you tell someone you love them in Jesus you should really mean it. Don’t do lip service. Remember that God is your witness in all things. Do it all to honor Him for He is worthy of all honor and praise. Amen?

Lord God, help me love others honestly with the love of Jesus today.

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Bible, Father, Love, Pleasure, Scripture

THE FATHER’S PLEASURE

COLOSSIANS 1:19

“For it was the Father’s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in Him,” 

It is in children’s DNA to want to please their fathers. There’s just something about hearing your dad say, “Proud of you, son.” I can remember growing up seeking my dad’s approval. Whether it was catching the biggest fish or bagging the most doves, I wanted my dad’s approval. I know he was proud of me. He told me on several occasions. It always moved me deeply.

We should have the same desire to please our Heavenly Father. But wait, look at the verse today. It says, “it was the Father’s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in Him.” The Father did something for His Son which gave Him pleasure. He does the same for us today. It gives the Father pleasure to fill us with His Holy Spirit. He is the One who indwells us now, and it pleases Him.

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Listen, you don’t have to do things to gain God’s love. However, when we do things that honor Him, I believe it gives Him pleasure. In Matthew 3:17, we read what God said about His Son. The same word is used there as we see in today’s verse. “and behold, a voice from the heavens said, ‘This is My beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.’”

We can best please our Heavenly Father by living a life that honors Him. Just as we do not want to do anything to dishonor our earthly fathers, we should strive every day to live honorably, pleasing Him. We don’t do it to earn His pleasure. We do it because we know it will. Get the difference?

How will you live today to honor Him? You know you can hear Him say, “This is My beloved child, with whom I am well pleased.” Think of the example you are showing your children or grandchildren. Remember, He is pleased with you because He loves you.

Father, I want to live today in a way that pleases You.

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Bible, Eternity, Faithfulness, Love, Scripture

SUPERNATURAL SUPERGLUE

COLOSSIANS 1:17

“He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” 

Have you ever used superglue? To the experienced user, it is a wonder glue. It can hold just about anything together. Therein lies the problem. If you are a first time user, you may just glue things together that you don’t want glued together. You have to be careful with it because it sticks really good and really fast. I have the mistakes to prove it.

The good thing about God’s superglue is it is always applied perfectly. Why am I talking about God’s superglue? Well, just take a look at the verse today. The last part says, “in Him all things hold together.” The Greek word for “hold together” has a deeper meaning than just holding together two things. It has the idea of standing with someone, of commending someone. In the Greek world, letters of introduction on someone’s behalf were a way of commending someone and saying, “I stand with this person.” That’s what God does for us.

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This same Greek word is used in Romans 5:8 where it says, “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” God stands behind His love for us, even when we didn’t deserve it. That’s some mighty powerful superglue, right? I was pretty sleazy and undeserving before His love was applied to me. But it still stuck.

In 2 Corinthians 10:18 we see that word again. “For it is not the one who commends himself that is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends.” It’s interesting that the word is used both positively and negatively in this verse. You can’t commend yourself. You are only approved when the Lord commends you. In other words, your own brand of superglue won’t stick. But God’s will.

Are you feeling sticky yet? All this talk about superglue may seem tacky (pun intended), but I want you to understand how firm a grip God’s love has on you once it is applied. You have to ask for the glue, though. God won’t just squirt you down with it. Once He does you will never be separated from Him again. You are bound forever. Hallelujah!

O Lord, thank You for applying Your superglue of love in my life.

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Bible, Holy Spirit, Information, Love, Scripture

INFORMER

COLOSSIANS 1:8

“and he also informed us of your love in the Spirit.”

In law enforcement people are often recruited as Confidential Informants. These are people who are usually involved in something illegal, are busted by the law and are “turned” to provide information about crimes. CIs are not the most trustworthy bunch. After all, they come out of the crime world themselves. They can, however, give information that can prevent future crimes or lead to the arrest of others.

Epaphras was NOT a CI. He was informing on the Colossian church to Paul while they were in prison together, but his news was not going to get anyone arrested. His information was going to give Paul joy. Look what he shared – their “love in the Spirit.” Now, that may not seem like much, but it was. These believers had learned to love as Christ loves. They were loving each other in the midst of potential persecution. They were there for each other. That must have truly warmed Paul’s heart.

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Paul didn’t always get good news about churches. In 1 Corinthians 1:11 we read, “For I have been informed concerning you, my brothers and sisters, by Chloe’s people, that there are quarrels among you.” How embarrassing! Don’t you think these believers were made to feel ashamed when they received this letter from Paul. You may be required at some point to share some less than flattering news about a brother or sister in Christ, in order to protect them and the church. Weigh that decision heavily. Seek godly counsel before doing so.

Do you know who else informs us of things? Jesus! Look at 2 Peter 1:14. “knowing that the laying aside of my earthly dwelling is imminent, as also our Lord Jesus Christ has made clear to me.” Jesus still speaks to us – if we are listening. He will reveal to us or inform us of things we need to know. That make come in a variety of ways – prayer, Bible study, other believers, quiet listening or circumstances. So, stay tuned in to His frequency to get your daily reports, lol.

What do you want to know about God? Ask Him! He’s not keeping secrets from us. He may not reveal everything to you at once. That’s how it’s been in my life. He usually gives it to me piece by piece because He knows how much I can handle. He may give you a bigger chunk. God wants to share with you His plans for your life. Once you ask and receive, do what He says. Amen? Amen!

O Lord, I can rely on the truth of Your information. All You speak is truth.

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Bible, Grace, Incorruptible, Love, Scripture

GRACE BE WITH ALL

EPHESIANS 6:24

“Grace be with all those who love our Lord Jesus Christ with incorruptible love.”

Today we don’t use the same greetings and farewells that were used in biblical times. For instance, Paul says in 2 Corinthians 13:12 to “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” Just try that today here in Tennessee. You would probably get slapped, punches or sued. Culture determines certain behaviors.

Paul uses these words in a lot of his letters. Yesterday, we saw him mention peace and love. In today’s verse, it’s all about grace. What did Paul mean when he said, “Grace be with all…”? Well, grace means getting what you don’t deserve. Paul knew these Ephesians. He had spent a considerable amount of time with them. He wanted to remind them as he signed off this letter that nothing is more important than the grace of God and they can show that by loving their Lord Jesus with all their heart.

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Paul wishes grace on us all if… There’s a condition here. Did you catch that? He said, “with all those who love our Lord Jesus Christ with incorruptible love.” How do you love someone without corruption? Well, the key is in the Greek word used here for “incorruptible.” It means “lacking the very capacity to decay or constitutionally break down.” (HELPS Word studies)

That word is used in 1 Corinthians 15:42 to describe our heavenly bodies. “So also is the resurrection of the dead. It is sown a perishable body, it is raised an imperishable body;” We are to love our Lord with a love that will never break down. That will never perish. How is that possible? Because when we accept Jesus as our Savior and Lord and live according to His will, His love fills us to overflowing. It is His love reflected back to Him, whom we know is definitely incorruptible.

Let’s ask the hard question. Do you love others that way? Well, now Carl, you are just meddling. Maybe I am. But I want to encourage you to love others, especially those closest to you with this incorruptible love. After all, He gives you His love to share with others. You are just the vessel He uses to express Himself. So, love like Jesus. Give grace like Jesus.

Oh, Father, thank You for giving Paul these words in this letter to encourage me to give grace and love others

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Bible, Jesus, Love, Peace, Scripture

PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL

EPHESIANS 6:23

“Peace be to the brothers and sisters, and love with faith, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.”

What an appropriate verse for this week! As we are in the midst of our Presidential Election here in the U.S., we are in dire need of peace and love. Each side is at war with the other, mainly through words. There is an obvious disdain for each other. Without commenting on the rights and wrongs of each candidate, I am praying for peace and love. There are some in our country who will not receive the results of the election well. Peace and love will be the last things on their minds. But we are commanded as believers to be peace makers and lovers of mankind.

Paul is ending his letter to the Ephesians in today and tomorrow’s verses. Today, we are focused on peace and love. Tomorrow it will be grace. Peace, love and grace – main columns of Christian growth. Keep in mind, Paul is signing off this long letter which would be read to the congregation. This isn’t an email that everyone would have received. One copy was delivered to the church and read aloud. He wanted to leave them with these thoughts – peace, love and grace. What a fitting close.

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In John 14:27, Jesus said, “‘Peace I leave you, My peace I give you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled, nor fearful.’” If Jesus gives us peace, shouldn’t we be practicing peace? It’s not the peace the world speaks about. It’s not the absence of war and conflict. It’s the peace that comes from God the Father. We are told to be at peace with everyone (Romans 12:18).

And we are to love each other. That’s taught throughout Scripture. 1 John is full of God’s love. Look at 1 John 4:7. “Beloved, let’s love one another; for love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.” I need to show God’s love to everyone I come into contact with – Republicans, Democrats, Independents, whatever.

So, in this day and age when peace and love seem to be relevant only if people agree with each other, let’s strive to show the world a different way. Let us be at peace and show love to everyone. This is done with actions, not just words. Today, be peaceable. Today, be loving. Show the world what it means to be like Jesus.

Lord, I cannot be at peace and love others outside of You. Be that peace and love through me today.

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Bible, Comfort, Love, Peace, Scripture

THE COMFORTER

EPHESIANS 6:22

“I have sent him to you for this very purpose, so that you may know about us, and that he may comfort your hearts.”

Some people just have the ability to comfort others. Their very presence in the room makes you feel better. One of my favorite childhood memories was my mom warming our flannel pajamas on top of our big kerosene heater in the hall. We would jump out of the tub, dry off and put on those warm pj’s. Awww, Comfort!

In today’s verse, Paul is still discussing Tychicus (whom we talked about yesterday). Now, we were told in verse 21 and in today’s verse that Tychicus was bringing news about Paul, who was under house arrest in Rome, so the churches would know how he was doing. But then Paul goes further and says Tychicus “may comfort your hearts.” You have to really trust someone to give them that task. Tychicus wasn’t just delivering a message. He was coming to love on the people and reassure them about Paul.

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Are you a comforter?  I don’t mean that thing you put on your bed, lol. I mean are someone people would look to for comfort. The Greek word used in today’s verse is parakaleó, which means to “‘make a call’ from being ‘close-up and personal’ and refers to believers offering up evidence that stands up in God’s court.” Tychicus was bringing words of encouragement to the church at Ephesus. Everything’s going to be okay.

One of my favorite passages on God’s comfort is found in 2 Corinthians 1:3-7. “3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ. 6 But if we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; or if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which is effective in the patient enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer; 7 and our hope for you is firmly grounded, knowing that as you are partners in our sufferings, so also you are in our comfort.”

God’s comfort is our comfort so we can comfort others. In the midst of our trials, God gives us comfort, He “calls us alongside” Himself. Then we can know and experience it for the sake of others. Just as you would not hog the comforter on your bed, you should not hold back the comfort God has given you. Instead, share it with others. Be a Tychicus today.

Thank You, Father, for Your comfort which You bestow on us.

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Bible, Husbands, Love, Respect, Scripture, Wives

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

EPHESIANS 5:33

“Nevertheless, as for you individually, each husband is to love his own wife the same as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.”

Back in the 1960’s Aretha Franklin had a hit song entitled, “R-E-S-P-E-C-T.” The song was talking about her wanting a little respect from her man when she comes home. Even though the song was super popular and really made her a star, the message is all wrong. Biblically speaking, it is the woman who is supposed to show respect to the man, not the other way around. Now, before you get mad and stop reading, I am not saying a woman should not be respected. I am saying when a man is shown the respect God intended from his wife, there will be reciprocal respect shown.

Notice today’s verse. Paul is wrapping up this passage on husbands and wives with this message. Husbands love your wives. Wives respect your husbands. Paul does not say husbands respect your wives and wives love your husbands. It is just understood that if each is following the Lord’s commands which He has given them, each will receive the love and respect they deserve. (look back and yesterday’s blog and the point about the triangle)

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We know the word for “love” in this verse. It’s the Greek word of God’s love, agapao. But what is the Greek word for “respect”? It is phobeó, which means to fear, dread, show reverence to, to be afraid, or to be terrified. Now, context is the key. Look how this word is used in Matthew 1:20. This is the scene in which the angel of the Lord appears to Joseph about Mary. “But when he had thought this over, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for the Child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit.’” Here, phobeó obviously means to not fear or be terrified.

In Luke 1:50 we see this word used again, but in a similar way it is used our verse today. This is Mary speaking during her Magnificat. “‘And His mercy is to generation after generation toward those who fear Him.’” We are not to be scared of God. Instead, we are to show Him reverence and respect. That’s how Paul is using this word in Ephesians 5:33.

Unfortunately, too many women do fear their husbands because of their brutality. God does not expect wives to have to deal with that. God’s plan for marriage works perfectly when both parties are following Him. If you are in an abusive marriage, seek help now. Don’t stay a victim of fear. If you are in a healthy marriage (notice I didn’t say perfect), do it God’s way. Let each of you show each other the love and respect God expects from you.

O God, thank You for showing us how to love well. Thank You for healthy marriages that model Christ’s love for the church.

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LOVE THYSELF

EPHESIANS 5:28

“So husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself;”

Getting old ain’t for sissies, or so I’ve been told. With age comes the struggle to keep weight off. Exercise seems harder. I really try to stay somewhat fit, but boy it’s a struggle. My wife says I like bread too much. True! And I pay for it on the scales. But I want to take care of this old body as much as I can so I can be of use for kingdom work.

In today’s verse, Paul compares the love a husband has for his own body to how much he loves his wife. Barnes puts it so well in his commentary on this verse. He says, “by this, he really promotes his own welfare, as much as he does when he takes care of his own body. A man’s kindness to his wife will be more than repaid by the happiness which she imparts; and all the real solicitude which he shows to make her happy, will come to more than it costs. If a man wishes to promote his own happiness in the most effectual way, he had better begin by showing kindness to his wife.”

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The Greek word for “ought” is ophello which “refers to being morally obligated (or legally required) to meet an obligation, i.e. to pay off a legitimate debt.” (HELPS Word studies.) I owe it to myself to love my wife as much as I love myself. By doing that, I am also caring for myself. You may have heard the expression “Happy Wife, Happy Life.” Well, that’s true, isn’t it?

You may be thinking, I don’t love myself very well, Carl. How will that affect loving my wife? That is a very good question. You need to know who you are in Christ. You need to love yourself. If you don’t, you are likely to take that out on your wife by not loving her well. You don’t have to be cocky and snobby about it. Just be secure in who you are in Christ.

I jokingly say most mornings that I got better looking during the night. Of course, I am usually corrected rather quickly by whoever hears me say that. But I do love myself. I love being able to love my wife well. Do I do that perfectly? Of course not. Most days I fall way short of doing that. But my heart every day is to show her the love of Christ. So, man up, big boy! Love your wife well.

Father, help me to love my wife more than I love myself. Help me show her Jesus every day.

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