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SIN IN THE FAMILY

MALACHI 2:10

“Do we not all have one Father? Is it not one God who has created us? Why do we deal treacherously, each against his brother so as to profane the covenant of our fathers?”

Family dynamics are hard. Some families seem to have no troubles at all from the outside. But if you were able to peer into the real family, you would see hurt feelings and squabbles. Why? Why do families, who share the same blood, fight and not get along. It’s simple – it’s called sin. Period! Exclamation mark!

Look at today’s verse. Malachi points out the failure of the people. When he says, “Do we not all have one Father,” he may be thinking about the Shema Israel in Deuteronomy 6:4. “Hear, Israel! The LORD is our God, the LORD is one!” They were in the same family – God’s family. God had called them His people. But they were sinning against each other which was in effect sinning against God.

APPLICATION

Isaiah 6:5 says, “Then I said, ‘Woe to me, for I am ruined! Because I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the LORD of armies.’” That is why we sin against each other. Isaiah saw it. We are all sinful creatures. In our case, as believers, we have the solution to all this sin – Jesus. He has covered our sins. He has given us the power to stop blaming our sins on someone else.

I believe Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 12:26 applies here. “And if one part of the body suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if a part is honored, all the parts rejoice with it.” Just as we all cheer for our family member who gets that award or makes the game-winning score, we also all suffer when one family member is fighting with another. This kind of in-fighting can kill a family.

There is only one solution to this – return to the foot of the cross. Forgive one another. Reconcile the family. When we “deal treacherously” with each other, whether it was intentional or accidental, the wounds are real and must be dealt with. Come together to Jesus. He can heal all wounds because He was wounded for us.

Father, forgive our in-fighting as family. Help us show love and compassion to each other daily.

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WHO WOUNDS YOU?

ZECHARIAH 13:6

“‘And someone will say to him, “What are these wounds between your arms?” Then he will say, “Those with which I was wounded at the house of my friends.”’”

Years ago, I was working in a woodshop using a table saw to split some plywood. On the last cut, I made a big mistake. I let my glove get too close to the blade, and it was grabbed by the blade, resulting in my finger getting cut pretty bad. I still have that wound on my right index finger, right at my knuckle. It is a constant reminder to be safe around whirring blades.

When you first read today’s verse, you might miss the implications to Jesus. The Hebrew word for “arms” can also mean “open hand.” This person the Lord refers to here in Zechariah was wounded by his parents. Jesus was “wounded” by His Father at the cross. His hands were pierced. Those wounds could still be seen after the resurrection. His Father allowed those wounds for us.

APPLICATION

Listen, beloved. Our deepest wounds are often caused by those closest to us – our families. We cut each other deep at times. Unlike Jesus’ wounds which had a purpose, these wounds we inflict on each other are just hurtful. Have you suffered that? Has someone you love caused you wounds? What do you do about that?

We imitate Jesus. What did He do when He was wounded by those soldiers at the cross? What did He say about those who had cried out for His crucifixion? Luke 23:34 tells us. “But Jesus was saying, ‘Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.’” He forgave them. He knew their actions were sin, but He asked the Father to forgive them. In fact, His death gave forgiveness for those very sins, if they would receive it.

I am not implying that it is easy for us to forgive those who have caused us wounds. But even in that moment, we have the opportunity to be Jesus. My late brother-in-law used to say about conflict, “Just be the wrong one.” I hated that. But he was saying what I am saying today. Forgive and let God handle the outcome. After all, you can do nothing else.

Lord, I am not capable myself to forgive those who have wounded me. Through Your power I can.

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