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Alone, Bible, Righteousness, Scripture, Self-righteousness, Vanity

IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU

ROMANS 4:23

“Now not for his sake only was it written that it was credited to him,”

In 1972 Carly Simon released a song entitled “You’re So Vain.” You may have heard it. The chorus says, “You’re so vain; You probably think this song is about you. You’re so vain (you’re so vain). I bet you think this song is about you, don’t you, don’t you?” Vanity is thinking the world revolves around you and that all that happens good in your life is because you deserve it.

Abraham was not vain. He knew the righteousness which was bestowed on him by the Lord was not because of anything he had done or could do. And he knew that God’s promises were not for him alone. They would be passed down to future generations through his son. We will see in tomorrow’s verse the second part of this thought. But just looking at today’s verse, I want you to see that it is not all about you.

APPLICATION

We were saved for a purpose. Our salvation comes with instructions – go share this with someone. Pass it on. Lead someone else to a saving knowledge of Jesus. Take the “Roman Road” and walk with someone to understand those verses and give their life to Christ. Your salvation is not all about you. God has saved you and enlisted you in His army. Stand and fight!

In the July 2025 assassination attempt on President Donald Trump’s life, after he stood up with a bloodied ear, he was surrounded by Secret Service agents. But through the mass of bodies, he shoved up his fist and shouted, “Fight, fight, fight!” He wasn’t giving up because he knew the election wasn’t just about him. Now, I’m not trying to be political here. I’m just giving an example. Things that happen in our lives are not just about us. We can affect hundreds of people by our reaction to events, including our own salvation.

What kind of effect are you having on others? Maybe you’re one of those who think it’s all about you. I have known a few narcissists in my life, none of which were very pleasant to be around. Take an inventory of all that God has done for you. Then find a way to share that with others. Most importantly, find a way to share your faith with someone this week one-on-one. Be honest and share your struggles. But don’t leave out the best part – He is always there.

Lord God, I know it is not about me. You came to give Your life for others, and I should lay down my life for them as well.

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Alone, Bible, Devotion, Faithfulness, Scripture

ALONE

PHILIPPIANS 4:15

“You yourselves also know, Philippians, that at the first preaching of the gospel, after I left Macedonia, no church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving except you alone;”

Have you ever had to do something all by yourself? It can be a daunting task if the job is large. When I was a teenager, I worked for a man named Walter Pollock. He sold all sorts of things at his Feed and Seed store. He also sold products for farmers. One of those products was for dusting peanuts. I would be sent to the warehouse sometimes by myself to load a few tons (yes, you heard that right) of it. I didn’t have a forklift. It was all done by hand or if I was lucky, with a hand truck. It was tough work, but it built character.

As Paul continues thanking the Philippians for their gift to him, he recalls that they were the only ones who supported him at times. That little word “alone” means just that – the only one, no one else, by yourself. Paul wasn’t busting anyone else’s chops about this nor was he bitter about it. He was truly thankful they had been faithful, even if they were the only ones.

APPLICATION

That word “alone” is used a lot throughout the New Testament. Let’s look at a couple of those to see that it is not a bad word or a reason to be depressed. In John 6:15, right before Jesus walked on the water, we read this, “So Jesus, aware that they intended to come and take Him by force to make Him king, withdrew again to the mountain by Himself, alone.” Jesus knew the power of being alone. I’ve done that a few times. I have gone off by myself to read, pray and hear from the Lord. That’s a good alone.

Then in Luke 4:8 Jesus reminds us that we have the command to worship God alone. “Jesus replied to him, ‘It is written: “YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD AND SERVE HIM ONLY.”’” There is no other God. He is the only One. He is alone in His majesty. He is alone in His justice. We need to be very careful to not let anything replace Him or be added to Him.

Are you alone today? Celebrate that. It’s about time for me to do an alone time again. I like to go out into the woods or to someone’s farm and pitch my tent. I love to use this time to fast and pray and truly hear God’s voice more clearly. My wife doesn’t mind because she too values her alone time. So, if you’re alone right now, listen to Him. Let Him speak.

Father, I am grateful that we can do things on our own, all alone. Your Spirit is always with us to guide and protect.

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Allies, Alone, Battles, Bible, Completeness, Scripture, Together, Unity

WE CAN DO MORE TOGETHER

EPHESIANS 4:16

“from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”

When I was in college I played a little intramural sports. I love football, so the thought of playing some flag football seemed harmless enough. However, near the end of the season, during one of the games I made a diving leap (I was much younger back then, lol) to grab the flag of the passing runner. I missed and landed with my right arm outstretched. It hurt, but I kept playing. By the next morning, I could not even raise my arm to wash my hair. After visiting the college infirmary, I found out I had separated my shoulder. My point – my arm could not work separated from my body.

In today’s verse, Paul uses a word that he used earlier back in chapter 2, verse 21. These are the only two places this word is used in the New Testament. The word is sunarmologeó and means to be joined closely with something. Remember, Paul is speaking about the body of Christ and the importance of each member of that body. This analogy of our human body described in this verse is so perfect to paint the picture Paul was trying to portray.

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If you have read many of my blogs, you know I love to quote Albert Barnes, a theologian who ministered in the 1800’s. He describes this phrase this way. “The foot, for instance, is in its proper place. It should not be where the head or the hand is. The eye is in its proper place. It should not be in the knee or the heel. The mouth, the tongue, the teeth, the lungs, the heart, are in their proper places. No other places would answer the purpose so well. The brain is in its proper place. Anywhere else in the body, it would be subject to compressions and injuries which would soon destroy life.”

Paul goes on in today’s verse and says, “held together.” It is the word, sumbibazó, which means to unite or knit together. The body of Christ has a purpose which requires us to work together. I love how Paul uses this word in Colossians 2:2. “that their hearts may be encouraged, having been knit together in love,” I think you get the picture.

It’s always easier to try to go the Lone Ranger route and just do it yourself. But we are expected as believers to work together to achieve the Lord’s purpose. The business world would call that synergy which is “the interaction or cooperation of two or more organizations, substances, or other agents to produce a combined effect greater than the sum of their separate effects.” We can accomplish more together.

Father, thank You for faithful brothers and sisters with whom I can work to achieve more for Your kingdom.

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Alone, Attitude, Bible, Calling, Clarity, Distractions, Holy Spirit, Indwelling, Peace, Restoration, Scripture

GOT TO GET AWAY

GALATIANS 1:17

“nor did I go up to Jerusalem to those who were apostles before me; but I went away to Arabia, and returned once more to Damascus.”

Have you ever just had to get away? I mean, out of Dodge, away from it all. Sometimes that is nice. My wife and I like to go to the mountains. Others like the beach scene. But I especially like to get in the woods. If I am hunting, that’s just icing on the cake. The real treat is just to get away. That is not meant to be a slam against anyone. I love people. Getting away from all the “noise” allows me to hear God more clearly. How about you?

In today’s verse, Paul describes an event that is absent from the book of Acts’ description of his early years. Paul, obviously, knew where he was then better than Luke (the author of Acts) did. To recap – Paul gets saved and then goes away for a period of time into Arabia. We don’t know exactly where he was or what he was doing. We can only conjecture. The point Paul is making in today’s verse is that he did not get his message from men. He got it from God.

APPLICATION

What can we learn from Paul in today’s verse and how do we apply that to our lives? We can learn that even the most honored Biblical saints needed to get away. Paul had to “unlearn” a lot of his earthly teachings and begin to listen to the Holy Spirit. Hmmm? What can we learn from that? We need to listen, don’t you think?  One way is to get into His Word. I recently read that the Scriptures give us communication with God so we can commune with God and have union with God. I like that.

Luke 5:16 tells us something about Jesus that we see reflected here in Paul’s life. “But Jesus Himself would often slip away to the wilderness and pray.” If Jesus modeled this and Paul did this, why shouldn’t we? I have found value in doing this. It clears my head. Do I always come back with some great new insight? Nope. But do I come back feeling more in tune with my Lord? You better believe it.

We can’t live in the wilderness. Paul didn’t stay in the wilderness. Jesus didn’t stay there either. He had work to do. We have work to do. In fact, we have HIS work to do. May you experience some solitude so your attitude can give you the fortitude to advance His kingdom. (That last sentence is an original Carl quote, lol.)

O Father, I thank You for those times I am able to get away and hear You clearly. I want to hear Your marching orders.

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SINNING AGAINST YOURSELF

HABAKKUK 2:10

“‘You have planned a shameful thing for your house by bringing many peoples to an end; so you are sinning against yourself.’”

I have to admit that I do not like pain. So, given a choice, I will choose every time to avoid pain. Some of the things people voluntarily do to their bodies amaze me. I do not understand why anyone would willingly let someone hurt them or cause them pain. Not me!

God is still talking in today’s verse. He is addressing the Chaldeans, whom we have described fully in previous blogs. But here God says they are sinning against themselves. They are inflicting themselves with the pain. They are only harming themselves with their actions. However, they were not listening.

APPLICATION

Today’s verse reminded me of 1 Corinthians 6:18-20. “18 Flee sexual immorality. Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought for a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”

Did you catch that? “sins against his own body.” Who wants to do that? We need to pursue God with all of our heart. Do not let some people try to influence you to do      evil. It’s not going to affect them a bit, but it could cost you dearly. Do not sin against yourself.

Think of the ways we could possibly do that. Now run the other way. We are told to accept the inevitable. Don’t believe that. Satan will do all he can to put us out of on our own. Who you have as allies determines the outcome. Allow them to point you in the right direction when you seem lost.

I am thankful for the way You direct me and for the fellow brothers You have placed in my life to confront me of sin.

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ABANDONMENT

JONAH 2:8

“‘Those who are followers of worthless idols abandon their faithfulness,’”

I worked for over 30 years in the child welfare field. In all those years, I saw a lot of children who had been abandoned. Abandonment is not a pretty thing. The feelings of loss and neglect are awful. Those who abandon are thinking only of themselves and not the lives they are affecting.

Jonah draws this analogy in referring to those who have abandoned their faith in favor of worthless idols. Those idols (or really those who peddled them) offered sensual or physical pleasures as part of their worship. The people’s hedonistic tendencies led them to choose those idols over true worship. They walked away from God. They abandoned their faith.

APPLICATION

Have you abandoned your faith? Have you tried to find something else to meet your needs? There is nothing else. Just like Jonah said, those things are “worthless.” They have no true meaning, no eternal purpose. They promise all sorts of things but never deliver. They only enslave.

If you have left your faith or it is weaker than it used to be, return to Him now. He will never abandon you. He will always be there. His love is eternal. His support of you will never end. 2 Chronicles 16:9 says, “For the eyes of the LORD move to and fro throughout the earth that He may strongly support those whose heart is completely His.”

So, is your heart completely His? If it is, He promises to “strongly support” you. There is no reason to abandon your faith. If you are struggling right now, turn to Jesus. He can carry you through. I pray you will stay close to Him. Do not abandon!

I will stay with You, O Lord. I know You will never abandon me.

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THE PITS

JONAH 2:6

“I descended to the base of the mountains. The earth with its bars was around me forever, but You have brought up my life from the pit, LORD my God.

You may have heard the expression, “this is the pits.” But where does that come from? Well, I looked that up. It can refer to armpits which implies body odor, something that is undesirable. It also can refer to someone who is in the depths of despair. That is what I think of when I hear this. Well…Jonah was in the pits.

Remember where he is when he says what we read in today’s verse – the belly of a fish in the depths of the sea. It’s hard to get much lower than that. He was low. He was in despair. Look what he says, though. He says, “You have brought up my life from the pit, LORD my God.” Wait just a minute. He’s still in that fish. But now he realizes no matter the circumstance, God can lift you up from the depths of despair.

APPLICATION

If you are like most people, you have found yourself in “the pits” at some time. How did you manage that? How do you get out of “the pit”? So many of us turn to counselors or doctors for help. They can be very helpful. But so many of us don’t look at the spiritual side of our despair. We are spiritual creatures, as well as physical.

I want to encourage you the next time you find yourself in “that pit” to turn to Jesus. Ask Him why you are feeling the way you are. Ask Him what He would have you do to get out of that low place. He may reveal some hidden sin in your life that needs confessing. He may point you to someone who has gone through what you are going through at the time.

I have had the privilege to share my journey through chemotherapy and stem cell transplants to others who are going through the same thing. Let me tell you – chemo will bring you down into a pit. You need others to encourage you during that time. What have you gone through and what lessons have you learned that you can share with someone today? Do that.

Being in “the pits” is no fun, Father. I thank You that You have lifted me up each time I have called on You.

HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY TO ALL THE MOMS OUT THERE READING MY BLOG!!

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EVEN THE LOST

JONAH 1:6

“So the captain approached him and said, ‘How is it that you are sleeping? Get up, call on your god! Perhaps your god will be concerned about us so that we will not perish.’”

Testifying about what Christ has done in your life is more than just words. Your actions speak loudly. If your lifestyle doesn’t match what you are saying, nonbelievers will mock you and reject your message. We all mess up and do stupid things, but if you are outwardly showing a different message, this can be confusing.

The captain of the ship must have known Jonah believed in something. Most people back then had some god they worshipped. The sailors had been calling on their gods without any result. Perhaps Jonah’s god (notice I put a little “g” there) could help. I don’t believe the captain knew just who Jonah worshipped.

APPLICATION

Our testimony is huge. Who do we think we are? We can’t live one way and testify to the other. I have messed up in the past. I have said and done things in the presence of nonbelievers that did not honor my Savior. I have asked God for forgiveness of that and have tried my best, through the power of the Holy Spirit, not to do it again.

We can’t ignore our impact on the world around us. Christians are  watched so closely. We have to live like Jesus. We have to strive to be sinless. I know, that’s not possible. But we should be trying to live that way instead of choosing sin. Right?

As I said, I have blown it in the past. I wish I could take it all back, but I can’t. All I can do is live better, live holier. Through Christ we all can. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man, but God is faithful. He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. And when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”

O Father, let me stand tall and alert to represent You at all times. When I fail, forgive me. Help me trust Your strength.

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TREMBLING

OBADIAH 9

“Then your warriors will be filled with terror, Teman, so that everyone will be eliminated from the mountain of Esau by murder.”

When I hear the word “trembling,” I can’t help but think about my little 4 year old daughter singing “Were You There.” She had a little lisp on her “r’s”, so tremble sounded more like twemble. But it was so cute hearing her sing this song. You could almost hear her tremble.

The mighty warriors of Edom were trembling in terror. Everyone was going to be eliminated, according to God. There was nothing they could do to stop it. They were in trouble, and everyone knew it. Tremble, tremble, tremble!

APPLICATION

Do you tremble at the thought of facing the Lord? I hope you don’t. There’s no need to do that, if you know Him as Lord and Savior. He is not a scary God. He loves you and wants to bless you. But you have to be willing to live for Him, which means getting rid of all the stuff that you put in His place.

Carl, I don’t have anything above God. Are you sure about that? We can so easily move God down a shelf or two when we get busy with other stuff. Nothing can come before Him – Nothing! Not even for a minute. He must remain first in your life.

I have learned that through the school of hard knocks. Have you been there? I think I got my doctorate there. I think I am finally at a place where I am more aware of where I place the Lord. He is first in my life. My wife knows that. My boss knows that. I want everyone to know that. Can you say the same?

O Lord, I do not want to tremble in Your presence. I want to walk confidently and boldly into Your arms.

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ALLIES

OBADIAH 7

“All the people allied with you will send you to the border, and the people at peace with you will deceive you and overpower you. They who eat your bread will set an ambush for you. (There is no understanding in him.)”

Don’t you just hate it when someone is betrayed by “friends”? It’s one thing for your enemies to attack you. But when so called allies turn their back on you, that’s hard. I am fortunate to say that has never happened to me (yet). I believe I can trust all my friends to have my back, if needed.

Poor Edom – they were betrayed by allies who knew them well. When push came to shove, the bailed on Edom and chose their own safety. Not only did they betray them, but they gave up many of their secrets to help the enemy. That’s like sticking in the knife and turning it. Not good.

APPLICATION

Who are the friends you can depend on? I serve now with a ministry called Every Man A Warrior. We teach men how to walk with God, succeed in life and multiply spiritually. One aspect of that training is teaching the need to have allies, guys in their corner. We know you can’t do this life alone.

It is beautiful when you see these groups of allies come together for one of their own. No betrayal. No turncoats. All coming together to give aid to one of their brothers. Whether it be a physical, emotional or spiritual need, these allies come together.

On the flip side, I’ve seen men try to do this on their own. What happens? They usually fall flat on their face. They are fine until they face that first hurdle and then wham! Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their work. If one falls down he has a friend to help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up.” Be that ally today for someone else. You will need them yourself one day.

Father, You made us to need each other. Surround me with godly men who can help me navigate this life.

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