John 10:11 “’I am the good shepherd; the good shepherd lays down His life for the sheep.’”

I have to admit I don’t know much about shepherding sheep. I have never owned a sheep, nor do I want to. All I have heard about sheep makes me want to avoid them. They aren’t smart (so I’m told). They wander off. They are easy prey for predators. So why would anyone want to be a shepherd to them?

But someone has to tend the sheep. In my years of ministry I have had the opportunity to lead others. I have seen that as a kind of shepherding. Some of the people who I led were easy to shepherd. Others – well – let’s just say they resisted being shepherded.

Our children are like that. Some are easily directed and cared for while others fight us every step of the way. But they still need to be cared for. The sheep that wanders off needs the shepherd. Our children who “wander off” need a shepherd.

Jesus said the sheep know His voice. Do your kids “know your voice”? Do they hear the caring in the words you use? Do they know when you are warning them of danger? Do they come to you when you call them? Do they long to hear your words?

Shepherding children is often a thankless task. But it is one that the Lord has given us as Parents. We must guard, guide and graze our children, just like a shepherd would for his flock. On those days you want to give up remember that He is the One who can show you how to shepherd. He is the Great Shepherd. He knows all the tricks. Just ask Him.